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I think suicide is pointless. I really dont see why people consider it and if it is what they really want, to just be done with this life then I guess its their choice. But no one ever realises that you realy dont do much with a suicide. You die so thats the end of you. People mourn you for a few years then life goes one. The only peopler you realy screw up are the people you are married to or if you have kids. They can be put into horrible financial or home situations. So I really dont see an upside to it or a good reason for it. Like I said its pointless.
 
     
 
I think that suicide is selfish because in a way you are only thinking about yourself and how bad your life is and not how much it would hurt other people if you killed yourself.
     
its the permanent solution to a temporary problem
 
     
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I think suicide is pointless. I really dont see why people consider it and if it is what they really want, to just be done with this life then I guess its their choice. But no one ever realises that you realy dont do much with a suicide. You die so thats the end of you. People mourn you for a few years then life goes one. The only peopler you realy screw up are the people you are married to or if you have kids. They can be put into horrible financial or home situations. So I really dont see an upside to it or a good reason for it. Like I said its pointless.

Maybe you don't get buried, you offed yourself in a secluded area where nature will take its toll on your body long after you've passed.

As I have mentioned COUNTLESS times before hand in my previous posts, What if your family truly denied your existence, you had NO Reason to Live; You Had NO Motivation to make something of yourself.
It truly is a hard decision considering the fact that Even Your Own Family Has Denied your very Existence, the Same Family that is Technically supposed to show this "Care" or "Love" people speak of.

Actually, as a comeback; Resorting to suicide in this kind of situation is pay back in my honest opinion, you can give them the giant middle finger and then they'll realize how much more "important" you were when they're chest-deep in funeral bills.

Whole Familes (Real Parents, not some Divorced Step-Dad/Mum) are extremely "rare." To have one that actually works, and stay that way throughout your life is pretty difficult, especially since people "Love" to cheat on each other nowadays.
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Edit: Don't Tell me any of this "Oh well, I'm sorry that my parents are better then theirs" Bullshit.

One can't help themself much when it turns out both parents are drug-abusers of some sort, or even raging alcoholics. A teenager growing up in that kind of situation is most likely to be abused under both abusive parents, thats not even including if the two parents fight each other every other night; and that is where Suicide comes to mind.
The legal system won't hear you out unless you go to the extremes and MAKE them See How Horrible your Life Is, But the Problem Is, People don't make it that far... They Break Down and that's where it ends. People who call themselves friends, they usually do not peek far enough into their "friend's" life, and therefore never "knew" and were not able to "help."

Who's at fault now?
The Person who chose to end their life?
The raging parents? Or Maybe The Friend?
Maybe the goverment is at fault for not approving of stricter parenting laws?
     
aw is this thread dead D;<
 
     
 
Idk, But people surely are blind... either no one wants to argue back against me or they're seeing the light when they understand my thoughts.
     
Suicide will allow them to rewrite your life story and tell it from their perspective. If you want to get back at them live and write a book. Suicide is not a very good tool for revenge as it gives all the options to the people you are attempting to avenge yourself on.
 
     
 
XXDear PrudenceXX
Suicide will allow them to rewrite your life story and tell it from their perspective. If you want to get back at them live and write a book. Suicide is not a very good tool for revenge as it gives all the options to the people you are attempting to avenge yourself on.
I didn't imply Suicide as a method of Revenge, I was saying it was a possible reason on why people would commit to it. If you were stripped of your emotions, you had no desire to live, you literally had NOTHING going on for you, would you seriously "Put" on a happy face and live life like nothing is wrong? I doubt you would. Your story will not hit the "National" News, it'll just be labeled underneath the list of names people will look down on.

"Oh another person commited suicide" Boo-hoo; everyone moves on with their lives. Some people want to do it because it'll make them "Famous" when it really does not do anything at all. To be honest, if your in such a situation where there is no hope at all, no "miracles" are saving you, then suicide is not selfish.

Everyone & Anyone should think of a situation where you would feel alone, no-one cares about you at all. Not any aspect of your personality or soul. Your undetected by the radar, you are Nothing. What do you do now?

Don't give me the "Oh, I'll make myself known!" Bullcrap, You have to work hard to get that even off the ground.
     
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I don't necessarily think suicide is selfish but it does bring a lot of controversies. It's done by people who have no use for life anymore and for that they take big measures for problems that are only temporary sometimes. If you need help, go seek professional help instead of ending your life. And btw, insurance doesn't covered by suicide deaths so it's better to think before you do it.
 
     

Don't diss the z e b r a cool
 
iTS NOt SElFISH CUZ A BUNCH OF PPlE CNT StAND DER LIfE SO DEY GO OUt && KIll DEMSElVES CUZ DEY DNt WANA TAKE DA PAiN
SOME PPlE DNt HAV FREINDZ DAt DEY CAN TlK TO
DEY HAVE NO OtHA WAY TO lET OUt DER EMOTiONS
     
KNOWING LOVED ONES GET STUCK PAYING THERE BILLS AND BURING THEM YES SELFISH BUT THEN SOME PEOPLE DO IT BECAUSE THERE NOT LOVED OR THINK NO ONE CARES OR DONE SOMETHING SO BAD THAT THEY KNOW ONE WOULD FOR GIVE THEM FOR ,WHAT EVER THE REASON WOULD BE ITS NOT THE ANSWER TO THINGS
 
     

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FOR THE LAST TIME I AM NOT GOIN KILL MYSELF SO STOP THINKING THAT GOSH!
     
It's very selfish instead of thinking about the feelings others will have if you killed yourself you only think about yourself so yes its selfish. People need to realize that other people in the world are going through a worse time and they are still alive... So I think people just take the easy way out instead of dealing with it. I have no pity.
 
     
 
yes and no
     
When I say "you" in my comment its not saying you as in you but its you as in general
 
     
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