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i was suicidal and i can totally admit that it is very selfish.
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Depends what the situation is.
If you had like one bad day and you commit suicide, then yes it is. But if you have a bad life, with no one that loves u, to be there for you, to know that someone out there cares for you it is hard to keep holding on then, to keep fighting for a better life because you dont have any reason to stay alive. |
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hmm...
I think its somewhat selfish because it affects people around you. ( ex. if you have an important job you would be hurting your co-workers and/or customers ) or if you have close friends/family members then you would be hurting them. Then again. It's your life. |
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Yes, it is.
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It's isnt selfish because some time ago i was like that. Im not a selfish person, I actually have alot of patience but as the years went on I couldnt take it no more. but then I had someone who loved me and she got me off that path but now she's gone cry . Just think about how your life has been before you take that next step cause the only thing keeping me alive now if hope that someday she will come back and it will all get better. just hope and pray everything that things get better
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I guess it can seem selfish, but.. they don't really intend it to be like that, I'm thinking.
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dieing is easy, its soldiering on when life sucks a** thats hard. im not sure if its selfish, but i know its cowardly.
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yes i think ppl would care if i killed myself.
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Of course it's selfish. Even if you assume no one will miss you, it's only an assumption. You've never really asked anyone how THEY feel.
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I believe it's selfish since if you commit suicide you dont care about how others that surround you will feel if you commited suicide.
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jordan_the_family_cat whoa deep topic man so ........ hardcore but umm oh yeah my cousins friend that is emo says its like umm something like "sucicide is the way of telling god you cant fire me i quit" Doesn't that mean like you're actually going to god ? sooo it's not really quiting..? Ido not believe btw razz |
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andgodwept iKill_chur_tacos very. no matter how bad ur life is. someone elses is alway worse I have always disliked that saying. It doesn't make your situation any better. Just like the starving children in Africa saying. Not everyone kills themselves because they think they have a bad life. i used to think the same thing until i tried it....three times. then my friends really opened up to me and i realized how selfish i was because their lives are a lot worse, so its not like i've never been n that situation to make a big choice like that. its not worth it |
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in many ways its selfish but in many other ways its not
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Yes.
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