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I don't have a problem with mine.
My Mom - She takes care of me and my sister. And I love her. She never smokes , or drinks.

My Dad - He was an alicholic. When I was 5, me and my sister were watching TV and my dad told us to go upstairs. So wwe did. They were in the dinning room and their room was right above it. There was a little vent in the floor, so we loooked in it and watched them. Then he started yelling. He tried killing her . he cholked her., and threw ash trays at her. A year l8er , he died from a heart attack. I miss him yes.. But I do wish he didnt make tho's mistakes.
The only problem i have is with my parents is that they never raised me.. I had to raise my self. All they did is provide food and i'm grateful for that.
I don't really have a problem with either of my parents. I'm going through a difficult time right now because of my depression and my dad doesn't really understand it...which I don't like because we aren't really talking and when we do we fight...

BUT...I love my mom to bits right now. It hurts so much I adore her. She doesn't know that I appreciate her love and support right now but I hope she will eventually.
My dad plays the 'disrespect' card for everything.
Once I asked my mom why she didn't check the movie times before we left for the movie,
and he basically gave me an hour long scolding telling me how asking that was
indirectly saying that my mom was wasting our time at the movies and that
I hate her and think she's annoying.
I get these types of lectures A LOT.
Usually over things that could and should just be forgotton.
Like if they ask my to do something and I don't say okay, or yes, sir, it's considered disrespect.
He also plays the "What would Jesus do" card.
Would Jesus tell your sister to shut up?
I'm not Jesus.
When he's not being a psycho card player, he's a pretty cool guy.

My mom exaggerates a lot, and she plays the victim.
Because of this, I get those dad lectures a lot.
She has no common sense, but she's also book smart.
Think it's impossible? It isn't. My mom is.
She's easy to talk to about my problems, but she can also overreact about some things I tell her.
My father is amazingly loving and wise.
The one thing I wish he didn't do was when I was young he forced me into an anti-abortion protest (he's super Catholic) even though people were yelling at me and I was scared.
He's much gentler about my political and religious views now, mind you.
He lets me be bisexual, though he's convinced I just think I'm bi.

My mother, I honestly wish didn't give me anything I wanted as a child, cuz now I have no discipline or patience.
Not to mention, her yelling and drunken state as I grew up.
Now she's freaking crazy, going through a teenage angst stage and crying cuz my sister hates her.
And yet, I still care about her cuz she has moments of sanity, plus I understand her pain in that her parents were abusive and neglectful.
Let the trivial teenage bitching commence.
My mom talks to me like I'm five and cannot comprehend anything she's saying. She's such an annoying airhead. I think one day I might just snap.
I just don't have a connection with my dad. Or my mom really, I don't like telling them about my personal life at all.
Im ok with my mom i love her dont get me wrong i just hate how she doesnt understand me
or doesnt care bout my interest or music/style.Im really into the peircings and tattoos
and this may sound mean but she wont let me be me at all i hate it,in like 2 months i gonna find
away to let myself be who iwanna be i will be 18.

My dad im ok with sometimes
he can be a huge complete a*****e and i would get yelled at and blamed for s**t i dont even do
he hate my style and interest aswell.calls me fat/peice of s**t/worthless and i dont need that
as i am already unhappy with myself i dont need him to bring me down

I dont really talk to my parents bout anything.just not comfortable telling them
crap.Oh well
My Mom- Love her to bits. Everybody is always saying how nice she is and how they wish they had a Mom like her. I can tell her almost anything, and even if it's bad, which it rarely is, she takes it easily. I forget the time we've ever fought, I'm not sure if we've have. She's always happy and optimistic, and so nice that I sometimes feel guilty for it. Once, I asked her why she is so happy all the time, and she said it was because when my brother died when I was a baby, it was the saddest moment of her life, and nothing could ever upset her more than that.

My Dad- POLAR. OPPOSITE. I don't know why my Mom hasn't gotten a divorce with him yet; he's a total a**. Of course, I could never say that or anything really to his face; he'd just overreact over all of it. All I ever say to him nowadays is "Hi Dad! Good Night Dad!". He's racist, sexist, and has the one of the biggest egos I've ever seen. He hates and complains about everything. He's had a hard life, I'll give him that, but he just doesn't realize he shouldn't take it out on us. If something doesn't go right, if he can't find something, if he has to do something he doesn't want to, he takes it all out on my Mom. It's horrible, even though it's not physically, to put into words. He didn't use to be like this, but ever since I was about 11...One summer he shouted at my mother almost every single day.

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♫...She Speaks...♫

I like them both but they aren't without their problems.

Mother: She's overweight, smokes, drinks too much, brings too many guys home, thinks money makes the world go round, thinks she's blameless, sends you on guilt trips, racist, is in a bad crowd (her best friends are a thief and an attempted murderer) and doesn't want to listen to her kids.

Father: He's overweight, pessimistic, stingy and hates the thought that we might have to live with him.

That's about it. heart But as I said, I love 'em both anyway.


♫...But is she heard?...♫
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My mom is really overprotective. It's just irritating. I'm almost 18, so...it'd be nice for her to get off my back sometimes. :/ Oh well. That's what mom's do.

My dad doesn't really try to see me very often, but that's really all he does. I don't see him enough to get annoyed at him. Haha.
My dad is the same as yours, except for the friends, the black guys thing and the country music.
And my mom: Sometimes i get along with her, but i don't trust her, basically because she tells everybody about my issues, so i prefer to stay away of that kind of things.

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