Desideraht
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- Posted: Sat, 06 Oct 2012 08:20:39 +0000
Just curious. I know, I know. "Labels are for soup cans!" But people label you, whether you like it or not. What have people called you? What have you called yourself? Does the "label" you fit into annoy you or liberate you? Do you label people? Are you part of a subculture?
I've had people label me as: f*****t, hipster, punk, scene, emo, raver, metalhead
I fit a couple of those, I think, but I don't rave, and I actually don't know how someone can be both scene and emo. But I've got the whole angst thing down, I guess. Though I kind of hate emo music. I get called a metalhead because of the clothing I wear a lot of the time and yes, I do blast metal through my headphones a lot. But I don't think I'm knowledgeable enough about metal to really be considered a metalhead.
The labels people put on me gets me harassment sometimes. I find when people AREN'T labeling me, and taking me at face value, that they tend to admire me rather than admonish me. Additionally, the labels that I personally identify with, people are often quick to tell me "NOPE. YOU AREN'T THAT." I think the trick to belonging to a subculture is NOT saying you do, and just participating in the functions and being into the stuff that group is into. As soon as you say, "I'M PART OF [GROUP]," people immediately want to kick you out.
I've had a few people (online only) say I thrive on labels. I don't. But I do acknowledge them. And if someone labels me, I'll do it right the ******** back. Then they b***h. They can dish it out, but they can't take it.
Thoughts?
I've had people label me as: f*****t, hipster, punk, scene, emo, raver, metalhead
I fit a couple of those, I think, but I don't rave, and I actually don't know how someone can be both scene and emo. But I've got the whole angst thing down, I guess. Though I kind of hate emo music. I get called a metalhead because of the clothing I wear a lot of the time and yes, I do blast metal through my headphones a lot. But I don't think I'm knowledgeable enough about metal to really be considered a metalhead.
The labels people put on me gets me harassment sometimes. I find when people AREN'T labeling me, and taking me at face value, that they tend to admire me rather than admonish me. Additionally, the labels that I personally identify with, people are often quick to tell me "NOPE. YOU AREN'T THAT." I think the trick to belonging to a subculture is NOT saying you do, and just participating in the functions and being into the stuff that group is into. As soon as you say, "I'M PART OF [GROUP]," people immediately want to kick you out.
I've had a few people (online only) say I thrive on labels. I don't. But I do acknowledge them. And if someone labels me, I'll do it right the ******** back. Then they b***h. They can dish it out, but they can't take it.
Thoughts?