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I was bullied badly when I was at school...the way I dealt with it was not responding to anything they did. It didn't give them any ammunition to continue but then again it still didn't stop...I spose I just came across as someone they could just walk all over.
However I did once tell my head of year about 2 girls who were bullying me in my first year of secondary school and she dealt with them and they didn't cause me any trouble after that...didn't stop others though... I just kept my head down and concentrated on my schoolwork...it gave me something to focus on so I could have an excuse to ignore them. I wish I could tell you it gets better...but only when I left school did things pick up...so my advice would be just ignore them and stick with it...you can leave school with good grades and get a good job while they're stuck working at McDonalds or something smile If it's really bad then consider changing schools...it might be a better option. I just recently learnt from my mum though that she would have sent me to another school if I'd just told her about it...this is several years after leaving school *sigh* typical... Hope this helps smile |
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I wasn't really bullied in school, at least not in the traditional sense.
But now that I am in university, my best friend's boyfriend is quite the bully to me. He disrespects my belongings by eating my food, leaving trash anywhere he pleases, wearing his shoes indoors, smoking indoors and going on my computer despite the many times I told him to stay away from it (all my work is on my expensive imac.) On top of that he thinks pranks like stealing my cable box, scale, underwear is just halarious, and thinks it's was super funny to pour ketchup in the bottle of wine I was drinking. To top it off, he took a personal item that was hidden in my room and showed his pals that were over, I was mortified. So, basically, I took it for a while. Then after the last incident I threatened his life and wouldn't allow him over. Now when he sees me he stays far away from me. |
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arcky I wasn't really bullied in school, at least not in the traditional sense. But now that I am in university, my best friend's boyfriend is quite the bully to me. He disrespects my belongings by eating my food, leaving trash anywhere he pleases, wearing his shoes indoors, smoking indoors and going on my computer despite the many times I told him to stay away from it (all my work is on my expensive imac.) On top of that he thinks pranks like stealing my cable box, scale, underwear is just halarious, and thinks it's was super funny to pour ketchup in the bottle of wine I was drinking. To top it off, he took a personal item that was hidden in my room and showed his pals that were over, I was mortified. So, basically, I took it for a while. Then after the last incident I threatened his life and wouldn't allow him over. Now when he sees me he stays far away from me. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Hey, after any guy steals underwear (even if he didn't do anything else), I don't blame you one bit for threatening to kill him rofl ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ |
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I was a bully but I wasn't the one that picked on random kids for no reason. I picked people for reason that mattered to me.
Like one boy who would walk over to my desk and brag brag brag about nothing I cared about. So I would find nit-picky s**t you pick on him about so he would go away. |
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Waffles of Nazis :[ I don't like them. Lol, I guess I'd just like to make a rant and all that nonsense. xp I guess I'm kinda sick of getting called stupid, fat, ugly, etc. etc. by everyone. I understand why they do it, but why do they have to be so awfully mean about it? Lol, I understand I'm not any of those things, but the more they say it, the more I believe them. And when my "friends" tell me to ignore them, how am I supposed to do that when it's them calling me those things? My sister, my mom? I certainly can't get away from them. Can anybody give me some advice? Or tell me some of your bullying stories? :] |
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