If you're only meeting pretty girls who are full of themselves, I'm sure it's a type that you're attracting. Girls (like guys) aren't set in stone to be one type of person. Just expand your horizons and you'll meet someone new, possibly pretty, smart and interesting. smile
Also, what is your definition of "down to earth"? Do you mean smart, no makeup type girls?
No, well, smart is important but that's not really what I mean. I mean the type of girl who actually has morals and self-respect and isn't tempted to mess around with every guy who looks at her.
I totally understand what you mean by morals.
Personally, Im really picky person and I happen to be a 20 yr old virgin (I'm very proud of this) so I haven't really given too many guys that much thought.
Recently, there was a guy who was interested in me but I told him that I had morals and I didn't want to get involved with him because he had just gotten out of a relationship with a close friend of mine. And he LAUGHED at my morals which was really insulting.
So I think that, like some girls, there are guys who are are just not that compatible for just anyone.
And actually (please don't take this as an insult) I find it very interesting that you're actually looking for a girl WITH morals. This is just what I've been exposed to, but most guys I know don't really care about that sort of thing. They're only interested in what a girl has done/ hasn't done and is willing to do. And it honestly annoys me when a guy starts a conversation with, "So what's the freakiest thing you've ever done?" Seriously, it's just no attractive. <------- Hehe, sorry this is so long.
I know what you mean. Being promiscuous or full of yourself is just not attractive. I just want my girl to have a good mindset/outlook on life.
I don't understand why people depend on looks still, I mean come-on it's about the personality.
-sigh- Speaking my opinion. redface
The whole personality thing is a really romanticized view of the world. That is not how it really is, no matter how much it should be. Looks matter, at least initially, although personality is extremely important too, which is why I'm asking for a down to earth girl.
OP, you're going to have to define what you mean by "pretty." Many, many girls and women are very attractive, but they don't attempt to conform to conventional standards of beauty or bother with the normal markers of sexual availability (ie, wearing tight clothing, using make-up, batting their eyes, giggling at at boys' jokes even when they're not funny).
If you think "pretty" means a girl with artificially blonde hair who's wearing a bunch of make-up, a push-up bra, and heels or platforms, then she's almost by definition not going to be "down to earth."
But a "naturally" attractive girl/woman who is down to earth? Heck, yes, they're all over the place.