Anyone never had a relationship or dated before?

[~kewtfarter~]

I've never ever dated anyone before. No one's really interested, no biggie.

[Kids Of The Black Hole]

Champaign Supernova

Kids Of The Black Hole

Champaign Supernova

Kids Of The Black Hole

I can see where some people lose a lot of self-confidence because they are never asked out, but from my experiences, the reason a lot of my friends have been single through high school, and are now questioning why, it's because they are not proactive.
Sometimes if you wait around to long for someone else to do the talking, you end up with a train wreck for a convorsation, if that makes sense.
I am in my late teens - I prefer not to broadcast age, - and have had two relationships in middle school - which meant nothing, because of course, you are in middle school, - and many throughout high school.
All very awkward, because I tend to date potheads, or punks.
But I can offer some advice none the less.
If you've never been in a relationship, and are fine with that, don't go looking for someone just because people give you a weird response to your status, or because you feel it's necessary - it is not.
If you're in this boat and want a relationship?
Try finding someone you can really enjoy being in the company of - a first experience should be good, should it not? - and try asking them before the situation starts to dull.
Dating rules are for idiots wink

Meh, lately I haven't been able to enjoy anyone's experience, like, I go out, and try to meet up with people, but NO ONE is interested, and even if I seem interested, like I talked to them before and we got along, they'll be like "Oh, I have a girlfriend" or something along the lines of that. I absolutely hate it when someone tells that to me and then goes and does stuff with three different girls the same night.

Yeah, I've been there.
A lot of the problems with dating is that people expect it to be simple to latch on to someone - I mean, you're not the most horrid person in the world, so why not? - but it ends up being more confusing and complicated than you'd hoped.
It took me thousands of attempts to get the attention of the guy I am still dating, and have been since I was 14.
In all, It comes down to patience.

Yeah I agree. I feel like people can just not be attracted for you for the silliest reasons, with me being no exception. I like guys with dark hair, preferably a really dark brunette, but not black, and anything lighter than that is a total turnoff for me...idk why, just my weird thing.

Yeah, I can only handle certain kinds of guys, with the exception of a few of my guy friends.
Sometimes people just don't like you, because you just don't match, you know?

[[ Mail Order Bride ]]

never been on a date or in a relationship
not to say i don't mess around i'm just not looking and actually avoiding that kind of thing right now
like in present times and this one is harder to shake off

[Regenbogencolours]

{ Regenbogencolours }

I had relationshis but NEVER more than 2 weeks ‘cause guys just start really easily to go on my nerves. I’m not into girl either, and not really interested in all this “couple staff” For the age: I’m 20, and if yo would go after the society it means I’m not “normal”, but who definies being normal? So I don’t really care. Maybe someday in the future I’ll meet the right guy which won’t start be too clingy
As for the picture(took it out of my deviantart so don’t wonderXD)
http://fc02.deviantart.net/fs49/f/2009/180/e/1/_The_day_I_learn_____by_Kagolein.jpg

{ Become a hero made of ordinary marrow and extraordinary heart }

[eruma-chan]

I'm 17 and never been in a relationship or been on a date.

Never really been interested in being in one, until recently, just when I hug some of my guy friends I'll think, "oh, it would be nice to not have to let go just now..." Is that weird? =(

[rin08]

I have.
1st-Turned into a jerk who cheated on me.
2nd-Awesome guy and it just didn't work out but we're still good friends.
3rd-Hormonal who only seemed to wanna make out.
4th-Turned pretty neglectful and is currently being a jerk.
Current- Perfect so far.

*plooka plooka*

[Champaign Supernova]

Kids Of The Black Hole

Champaign Supernova

Kids Of The Black Hole

I can see where some people lose a lot of self-confidence because they are never asked out, but from my experiences, the reason a lot of my friends have been single through high school, and are now questioning why, it's because they are not proactive.
Sometimes if you wait around to long for someone else to do the talking, you end up with a train wreck for a convorsation, if that makes sense.
I am in my late teens - I prefer not to broadcast age, - and have had two relationships in middle school - which meant nothing, because of course, you are in middle school, - and many throughout high school.
All very awkward, because I tend to date potheads, or punks.
But I can offer some advice none the less.
If you've never been in a relationship, and are fine with that, don't go looking for someone just because people give you a weird response to your status, or because you feel it's necessary - it is not.
If you're in this boat and want a relationship?
Try finding someone you can really enjoy being in the company of - a first experience should be good, should it not? - and try asking them before the situation starts to dull.
Dating rules are for idiots wink

Meh, lately I haven't been able to enjoy anyone's experience, like, I go out, and try to meet up with people, but NO ONE is interested, and even if I seem interested, like I talked to them before and we got along, they'll be like "Oh, I have a girlfriend" or something along the lines of that. I absolutely hate it when someone tells that to me and then goes and does stuff with three different girls the same night.

Yeah, I've been there.
A lot of the problems with dating is that people expect it to be simple to latch on to someone - I mean, you're not the most horrid person in the world, so why not? - but it ends up being more confusing and complicated than you'd hoped.
It took me thousands of attempts to get the attention of the guy I am still dating, and have been since I was 14.
In all, It comes down to patience.

Yeah I agree. I feel like people can just not be attracted for you for the silliest reasons, with me being no exception. I like guys with dark hair, preferably a really dark brunette, but not black, and anything lighter than that is a total turnoff for me...idk why, just my weird thing.

[Kids Of The Black Hole]

Champaign Supernova

Kids Of The Black Hole

I can see where some people lose a lot of self-confidence because they are never asked out, but from my experiences, the reason a lot of my friends have been single through high school, and are now questioning why, it's because they are not proactive.
Sometimes if you wait around to long for someone else to do the talking, you end up with a train wreck for a convorsation, if that makes sense.
I am in my late teens - I prefer not to broadcast age, - and have had two relationships in middle school - which meant nothing, because of course, you are in middle school, - and many throughout high school.
All very awkward, because I tend to date potheads, or punks.
But I can offer some advice none the less.
If you've never been in a relationship, and are fine with that, don't go looking for someone just because people give you a weird response to your status, or because you feel it's necessary - it is not.
If you're in this boat and want a relationship?
Try finding someone you can really enjoy being in the company of - a first experience should be good, should it not? - and try asking them before the situation starts to dull.
Dating rules are for idiots wink

Meh, lately I haven't been able to enjoy anyone's experience, like, I go out, and try to meet up with people, but NO ONE is interested, and even if I seem interested, like I talked to them before and we got along, they'll be like "Oh, I have a girlfriend" or something along the lines of that. I absolutely hate it when someone tells that to me and then goes and does stuff with three different girls the same night.

Yeah, I've been there.
A lot of the problems with dating is that people expect it to be simple to latch on to someone - I mean, you're not the most horrid person in the world, so why not? - but it ends up being more confusing and complicated than you'd hoped.
It took me thousands of attempts to get the attention of the guy I am still dating, and have been since I was 14.
In all, It comes down to patience.

[Kuku-oni]

... I think I'll end up never dating. Heh. xD

I'm only thirteen (almost fourteen, ohmaigawd), but no guy has ever had a crush on me. o3o
Okay, one recently this year (was told by one of my friends), but I only see him as a friend, so eh.

Besides, like some others have said, I'm geeky, so the guys kind of stray away. xD
Well, 'cept for one up until recently, but he's an a*****e through and through.

[ChandaPanda123]

I've never been in any sort of relationship. It's even worse when people are constantly telling you how pretty, smart, thoughtful, funny, blah blah blah you are but no one actually steps up when given the chance. Sometimes it makes me paranoid that there's something really wrong with me that I don't know about and everyone is keeping from me...

[Moocat]

I'm 17. Never had a date, or been in a relationship.

It depresses me, really. Because it just means I'm not pretty or likeable. No one wants to bother with me.

[`Origami]

OMGeez

Whos doing the failure? the guy turning or the old guy putting his hand on his stomach?

The 'old guy', who happens to be our past president.

[Pipe Private]

ninja Well, Miss, I am twenty-three and have never been on any official date or ever in any relationship.

I'm at a point right now to where I almost want to see how much longer I can last. It could very easily be forever. It's possible that I'm exaggerating, but at the same time, it's almost frighteningly easy to never engage in a relationship with a person for the duration of your life.

Guys interested in me either have wanted to use me to get closer to a friend, were on the rebound, or had literally just been released from a psychiatric institution some months or a year prior.

One normal feller was interested in me, but there was nothing I could do about just not liking the guy in return. He was just completely the wrong type. And we had almost nothing in common, really. I refuse pity-dating. gonk


So... I don't place having a relationship at the top of my list of Life Goals. I don't intend to be married. Kids have been out of the picture for over a decade and a half. If I do meet someone, it won't be because I was looking for him.

I had a srs crush on a guy, but he was gay. Humorously, I think the universe is trying to send me a message. razz

But if you are frustrated because you want to be in a relationship then be sure to take care of your hygiene, don't be afraid to dress a bit nicely (preen your feathers, so to speak), be open and friendly, don't be afraid to be social because everyone has his or her own set of insecurities. And by the end of the day, who even really cares about them anymore?

[OMGeez]

Champaign Supernova

Risa de Navi

I've never had a relationship or dated before.
But I'm 14, so it's all good.

Anyhoo...
I suppose I've never dated anyone because 1) I act ridiculous around boys I like or am interested in and 2) I already know everyone in my grade.
So if I don't like a guy, then I am 100% normal and myself around him. Which might explain why weirdos are the only ones who ever crush on me. gonk
And if I do like a guy, I can't speak right and I become awfully boring and I mess up.
Plus, when you spend 7 years with the exact same people, and when you were a bad person in sixth grade and thus became semi-nerdy when you might have been popular otherwise, and when everyone separates into nearly-unbreakable friends circles because we've been together for so many years, it becomes quite difficult to date a guy outside said friends circle. And I actually have no guys in my friends circle. So yup.
Oh, and my friends don't have much in common with me, so we don't talk about guys or go out to parties and dances and whatever either. =/
Plus I'm not bubbly or connected enough to date guys in my school that are older than me.

Guess I'll wait till college.
Or something.

Oh good. Honestly, I think at your age you're better off just being friends with people. I remember being 14 and having friends with boyfriends, and I thought it was the biggest waste of energy anyone could ever put into something. The relationships were just really dumb and lacked a mature level of communication that is necessary. Waiting til late high school or college is good though, I laud your efforts.

Whos doing the failure? the guy turning or the old guy putting his hand on his stomach?

[Champaign Supernova]

Kids Of The Black Hole

I can see where some people lose a lot of self-confidence because they are never asked out, but from my experiences, the reason a lot of my friends have been single through high school, and are now questioning why, it's because they are not proactive.
Sometimes if you wait around to long for someone else to do the talking, you end up with a train wreck for a convorsation, if that makes sense.
I am in my late teens - I prefer not to broadcast age, - and have had two relationships in middle school - which meant nothing, because of course, you are in middle school, - and many throughout high school.
All very awkward, because I tend to date potheads, or punks.
But I can offer some advice none the less.
If you've never been in a relationship, and are fine with that, don't go looking for someone just because people give you a weird response to your status, or because you feel it's necessary - it is not.
If you're in this boat and want a relationship?
Try finding someone you can really enjoy being in the company of - a first experience should be good, should it not? - and try asking them before the situation starts to dull.
Dating rules are for idiots wink

Meh, lately I haven't been able to enjoy anyone's experience, like, I go out, and try to meet up with people, but NO ONE is interested, and even if I seem interested, like I talked to them before and we got along, they'll be like "Oh, I have a girlfriend" or something along the lines of that. I absolutely hate it when someone tells that to me and then goes and does stuff with three different girls the same night.