well. I wasn't really abused, per se.
my dad was an alcoholic, but never beat anyone. he's just get really angry when he got drunk. and yell at me or my sister for stupid things. mainly that he computer was acting weird. most likely while he was looking at porn.
but when I was in middle school I was made fun of for reasons I still don't understand.
like, because I was quiet and didn't act out and kept to myself and didn't say anything to anyone, really, kids picked on me and were obnoxious.
also, I didn't hate teachers w/ a fiery passion.
I was always a shy nerd. so they fed off of that and tried to make me cry.
then I embraced the nerd/geek inside mid High School and went "screw you guys!" and started acting more like I wanted to, friendly and spazzy and loud. (thanks to Drama classes, I was able to open up more and be less shy) and I made a bunch of friends who would most likely kick the a** of anyone who tried to pick on me. if I didn't get to them first.
that's pro'lly not what you're looking for.... but if it involves peers, a lot of us are victims.