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So someone who does enjoy sex and is female actually is a slut and that is a negative thing to be?


I don't believe that, but a lot of people do.


So a slut is kind of like believing in Jesus or not believing in Jesus, where it boils down to whether or not someone believes in a slut or doesn't believe in a slut?

Oh my God, I love this comparison to pieces. There's even some correlation between believing in one and believing in the other! But yes, "slut" is just a nasty thing to say to someone you don't like for any reason. People say it when they are jealous of you, or when you argue with them on the internet, or when they're feeling insecure, or when you made them mad. It's a mean-spirited little word that doesn't mean much of anything in and of itself.


If someone sleeps around would it be appropriate to call them "a Jesus"?

You could try to coin a phrase, for sure. It's a little-- okay, a lot-- sacrilegious, but maybe that'll make people stop and think? Or maybe it'll just be funny to you? Which is a win/win from your standpoint, I suppose. xd
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I don't judge people, so no. :3
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LOL.
I think judging people based on how sexually active they are is ridiculous.
It's human nature.
UNLESS you did anything with someone who was in a relationship. That's shitty.
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                  Nope.
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No. Because your sex life is in no way any of my business. As long as you're safe I don't what the problem or big ******** deal is.

She asked you a question about her sex life, making it temporarily your business. Even sluts can be 'safe' about it, although just making the guy wear protection doesn't make you immune to the label.



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And if you look closely. There is an answer in there. The very first word of my response. Amazing.
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I'm not one for judging people. You are not a slut. I have friends who have had more than that and we're in high school still.
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No. Because your sex life is in no way any of my business. As long as you're safe I don't what the problem or big ******** deal is.

This. I am not down on slut shaming.

Oh, btw Snowy, I love your siggy. It makes me laugh...so very hard.
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honestly no i wouldn't emotion_8c
there are tons of people who have had more partners than you have..
i also don't use that pathetic degrading word to describe others..
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yes.
Mark me a curious slut, but what is the "threshold" for you that marks slut from not?
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yes.
Mark me a curious slut, but what is the "threshold" for you that marks slut from not?


being sexually active with people you are not in a relationship with. but i don't think being a slut means you're a bad person.
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yes.
Mark me a curious slut, but what is the "threshold" for you that marks slut from not?


being sexually active with people you are not in a relationship with. but i don't think being a slut means you're a bad person.
Ah okay.
No. Sounds to me more like you were just coming into your sexuality and exploring.
My little sister started sneaking out and having sex when she was 13.
My older sister tried to get herself pregnant on purpose when she was 14.

My own story is nothing like this but you're very tame compared to a lot of people I know.

Slut is a state of mind; yours is really the only opinion that matters here OP.

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