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only problem i have is that you started young. other then that, compared to some of the girls in my area, you're not doing to shabby haha. but thats not encouragement to get up there either. just tone it down and make it meaningful now. it will put a roadblock in future relationships if you don't
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Meh, do what you want buy make sure to play it safe.
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There is nothing wrong with a little promiscuity. In fact, we could all stand to be a little bit more promiscuous from time to time.

I'd advise strict use of contraception and regular clinical visits for STD screenings. It is your body and you should be able to do with it as you please, however. No one should be able to coerce you into behaving otherwise with name-calling.
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I've recently turned 19. I have had sex with 5 guys (3 that I dated), oral with 3 girls, and just up to oral with one guy. I have been sexually active since I was 15, so this is all over about 4 years. Would you consider me a slut?

It's actually better to be a slut than to be a regular person, because regular people are brainwashed into sexual repression and hate their ******** lives.

******** I hate people. Making nice girls feel bad about themselves for ******** a lot. THAT'S WHAT THEY'RE SUPPOSED TO BE DOING YOU ********.
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No. Because your sex life is in no way any of my business. As long as you're safe I don't what the problem or big ******** deal is.
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Not really. You could have just been curious or enjoyed what you did. The term "slut" is just another label.
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Kind of.

But I'm a prude when it comes to sex.
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No. Because your sex life is in no way any of my business. As long as you're safe I don't what the problem or big ******** deal is.

She asked you a question about her sex life, making it temporarily your business. Even sluts can be 'safe' about it, although just making the guy wear protection doesn't make you immune to the label.
I don't think that the number is really an indication of whether or not someone is a slut, rather their overall demeanor about their sex life.

If you're sleeping with a different guy every week and bragging about it, yeah, I'd probably call you the s-word in my head. If you're sleeping with a different guy every week, simply because you enjoy sex and do not want to be in a committed relationship, and you keep the information fairly private - no, I wouldn't say you were a slut.

Giving it up to anybody that moves is slutty, in my opinion. If the other person respects you, and you trust them, I wouldn't consider that person a slut. Sex is a function that we evolved to be enjoyable. It's natural. Just don't advertise it to the world and you're fine.
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"Slut" is what people say to punish you for knowing your own mind and not being ashamed of your body or of sex. It's pointless. As long as you're honest and practicing safe sex, you're not doing wrong. Anyone who really pries into your sex life or wants to judge you for it is kind of creepy, anyway; that stuff is private and weaseling it out of someone you're not intimate/looking to be intimate with is kinda messed up.
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Peitsche Hundin
I've recently turned 19. I have had sex with 5 guys (3 that I dated), oral with 3 girls, and just up to oral with one guy. I have been sexually active since I was 15, so this is all over about 4 years. Would you consider me a slut?


what I feel is that you either like sex or...you are looking for the right partner. Look you are young and NO you are not a slut....just permiscuist (sp) its simply yopu and you know what? I know you will find that you are looking for.

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If you're loose, and dont plan on a relationship, and do for doing it...

Yes you're a slut. sad
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If you're loose, and dont plan on a relationship, and do for doing it...

Yes you're a slut. sad


Otherwise... If you're looking, and sexually active, I dont think so. Liking sex isn't a bad thing, but there is a shady line that's easy to cross. It all depends... -shrug- I"m not one to judge, at least i hope not.
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Nah, you're not a slut. You had sex with about two people a year. That's not a lot of tail at all.

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