Vahldus
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- Posted: Sat, 17 Jan 2015 06:38:12 +0000
I'm a senior in High school who just got out of a relationship over the summer.
I was also trying to over my social anxiety.
Following late September and early October, this guy started talking to me,(a junior) and I thought woe, time to turn over a new leaf and start making some friends! (I don't have any lmao)
Then he asked me out on a date, though I was not looking for a relationship anytime soon I thought sure.
He put ALOT of guilt tripping that I was suspicious of, but he forcefully kissed me and I played along like the submissive idiot I am
A week later his hand is shoved down my pants while I'm trying to resist a panic attack coming on
Turns out, that guy's ex confronted me and asked about our relationship
What I found out was interesting; the guy I dated is an emotionally manipulative sexual abuser who uses others for attention and sexual release.
Bonus; he knew that I was emotionally unstable, went to therapy weekly, dealt with a disorder, and have experienced sexual assault in the past. How lovely.
I'm not the first he's done this to, in fact over the past two months he's found another victim to which he promptly forced himself on
We've all been silent on this, and I'm not sure what the next course of action to be
Notify the school?
The district?
What are the school's policy?
I honestly cannot stand the sight of him anymore, I want to cry every time he's there. And he is, he sits next to me in two periods and occasionally references in GREAT DETAIL what he did to me during class.
I can't go on much longer before I burst, that clock is ticking
I was also trying to over my social anxiety.
Following late September and early October, this guy started talking to me,(a junior) and I thought woe, time to turn over a new leaf and start making some friends! (I don't have any lmao)
Then he asked me out on a date, though I was not looking for a relationship anytime soon I thought sure.
He put ALOT of guilt tripping that I was suspicious of, but he forcefully kissed me and I played along like the submissive idiot I am
A week later his hand is shoved down my pants while I'm trying to resist a panic attack coming on
Turns out, that guy's ex confronted me and asked about our relationship
What I found out was interesting; the guy I dated is an emotionally manipulative sexual abuser who uses others for attention and sexual release.
Bonus; he knew that I was emotionally unstable, went to therapy weekly, dealt with a disorder, and have experienced sexual assault in the past. How lovely.
I'm not the first he's done this to, in fact over the past two months he's found another victim to which he promptly forced himself on
We've all been silent on this, and I'm not sure what the next course of action to be
Notify the school?
The district?
What are the school's policy?
I honestly cannot stand the sight of him anymore, I want to cry every time he's there. And he is, he sits next to me in two periods and occasionally references in GREAT DETAIL what he did to me during class.
I can't go on much longer before I burst, that clock is ticking