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Post: 8219508_1 created on Wed, 08 Jun 2005 00:22:41 +0000
Posted: Wed, 08 Jun 2005 00:22:41 +0000

is it possible to fall in love with someone you barely know or who doesnt know you?? i have liked a guy for about a year now and well he's goregous...talented in a lot of things.....but he has a girlfriend and really popular....i dont think he has even recognized me....oh yeah he is also 4 years older than me.....is it possible that i like him to much or that it is wrong that i like him since he is older??? i absolutley adore him...all i do is think about him....write about him...talk about him...daydream about him....and its driving me crazy.....how can i get him to recognize me and remember me?? plzz help me im a mess right now and i need to know!

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Post: 8219508_2 created on Wed, 08 Jun 2005 00:23:46 +0000
Posted: Wed, 08 Jun 2005 00:23:46 +0000

You can't. Don't bother trying.

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Post: 8219508_3 created on Wed, 08 Jun 2005 00:24:22 +0000
Posted: Wed, 08 Jun 2005 00:24:22 +0000

Oi. Give it up. You have a crush. One on a guy who will not like you back anytime soon. Move on! Get a life and try to live it without the focus on a guy you can't have...

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Post: 8219508_4 created on Wed, 08 Jun 2005 00:24:42 +0000
Posted: Wed, 08 Jun 2005 00:24:42 +0000

obsessive?

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Post: 8219508_5 created on Wed, 08 Jun 2005 00:27:33 +0000
Posted: Wed, 08 Jun 2005 00:27:33 +0000

What you feel in love with, if you actually did, is the person you want him to be. Since you don't really know him, you didn't actually fall in love with him, just the superficial image you happen to see of him.

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Post: 8219508_6 created on Wed, 08 Jun 2005 00:27:46 +0000
Posted: Wed, 08 Jun 2005 00:27:46 +0000

It's called an infatuation - look it up.

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Post: 8219508_7 created on Wed, 08 Jun 2005 00:28:34 +0000
Posted: Wed, 08 Jun 2005 00:28:34 +0000

Lebenswelt

Oi. Give it up. You have a crush. One on a guy who will not like you back anytime soon. Move on! Get a life and try to live it without the focus on a guy you can't have...

Thats mean, she could at least TRY!

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Post: 8219508_8 created on Wed, 08 Jun 2005 00:30:17 +0000
Posted: Wed, 08 Jun 2005 00:30:17 +0000

No, it's a crush...and I advise you to get over it >_<;;; He probably wont like you back any time soon...

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Post: 8219508_9 created on Wed, 08 Jun 2005 00:31:12 +0000
Posted: Wed, 08 Jun 2005 00:31:12 +0000

Love is somthing that is retured, is he dosen't know who you are; you can't be in love. It's like a crush.

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Post: 8219508_10 created on Wed, 08 Jun 2005 00:31:58 +0000
Posted: Wed, 08 Jun 2005 00:31:58 +0000

X-x=ally=x-X

Lebenswelt

Oi. Give it up. You have a crush. One on a guy who will not like you back anytime soon. Move on! Get a life and try to live it without the focus on a guy you can't have...

Thats mean, she could at least TRY!

Wrong.

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Post: 8219508_11 created on Wed, 08 Jun 2005 00:32:47 +0000
Posted: Wed, 08 Jun 2005 00:32:47 +0000

never mind forget i ever sad anything!! *looks at ground...starts to walk away* your all right...its just a foolish feeling! a fake....pretend! your all right!

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Post: 8219508_12 created on Wed, 08 Jun 2005 00:33:03 +0000
Posted: Wed, 08 Jun 2005 00:33:03 +0000

Luther Dark

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Lebenswelt

Oi. Give it up. You have a crush. One on a guy who will not like you back anytime soon. Move on! Get a life and try to live it without the focus on a guy you can't have...

Thats mean, she could at least TRY!

Wrong.

Why?

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Post: 8219508_13 created on Wed, 08 Jun 2005 00:36:01 +0000
Posted: Wed, 08 Jun 2005 00:36:01 +0000

X-x=ally=x-X

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Lebenswelt

Oi. Give it up. You have a crush. One on a guy who will not like you back anytime soon. Move on! Get a life and try to live it without the focus on a guy you can't have...

Thats mean, she could at least TRY!

Wrong.

Why?

Wrong.

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Post: 8219508_14 created on Wed, 08 Jun 2005 00:36:06 +0000
Posted: Wed, 08 Jun 2005 00:36:06 +0000

Love is the choice, not a feeling. You have an image of what this guy is in your head and that's what you're so highly attracted too. I'm not saying your feelings aren't real...but you've got to remember that you don't know him at all. You don't know how he acts when he's his angriest, his most depressed, how he acts under pressure...all these things are important to know when letting yourself fall head over heels for someone.

But hey, don't feel bad...we've all been there. It's not uncommon to get a fixation on someone based on what you believe them to be in your head. Heck, I liked a guy for 2 years, then found out he was really a jerk... sweatdrop

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Post: 8219508_15 created on Wed, 08 Jun 2005 00:42:56 +0000
Posted: Wed, 08 Jun 2005 00:42:56 +0000

yeah well your actually the first person who has actually consider my feelings in this! sad

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