What do you think about over protective parents?

[xXMidniteDawnXx]

My dad is really over protective and it's really starting to get on my nerves. I never used to notice till now, because I'm getting older, and dad thinks it's because of my new school. He threatens to send me to a catholic school, he won't let me put my picture up on the internet( a fully clothed picture for all those thinking I'm a s**t), I can't write in my diary without him peering over my shoulder. He's also mean, telling my I'm a brat, mean, and cruel. I don't know how to deal with this. When ever I tell him he say "Oh, no I'm not, I'm being a good dad." same gos for when I tell him he's mean, he says "No, I'll have to tell you, I'm a very nice and caring person." I want to tell him I want to live with my mom (who I haven't seen scene I was 8 or so) but then he'll talk about her, and I don't wanna her him talk in his annoying voice about how everything with my mom is none of his fault when it is. What are your thoughts on this? Do you have an over protective or mean parent? If so, please tell us about it.

EDIT: Anyone who says I just want to put naked pictures of myself up, is soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo wrong! And will be reported.

[Sweetpea The Tigress]

I'd say he was psychologically incestuous... sad

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Life Issues, go there.

[xXMidniteDawnXx]

Sweetpea The Tigress

I'd say he was psychologically incestuous... sad

for us with a small vocabulary, what does that mean?

[irishcandie]

if i was you i would talk to a school consoulor. i mean some boundraies are good but your dad sounds nuts. i mean my mom wont touch my diary unless i let her which doesnt happen, and i somewhat understand the pic thing , but still...

[xXMidniteDawnXx]

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Life Issues, go there.

o sorry, i don't know the forums that good

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xXMidniteDawnXx

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Life Issues, go there.

o sorry, i don't know the forums that good

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Or the English language, apparently.

[Tarquin Aluclaire]

Tell your dad that Catholic Schools are full of sluts and drugs.

Unless you like sluts and drugs, in which case you should goad him into sending you.

[Sailorr-Peniss]

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Post it here. =)

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[Little Miss Despair]

my mom is overprotective sometimes. She always thinks she knows what's best for me even though I've been independent since I was 11.

[Sweetpea The Tigress]

xXMidniteDawnXx

Sweetpea The Tigress

I'd say he was psychologically incestuous... sad

for us with a small vocabulary, what does that mean?

It means he's too emotionally involved with you, and that he's prying into issues that he has no business in. He's being too emotionally intimate with you by prying into your business- especially if he reads things you write about your physical/sexual development, chrushes on boys, stuff like that. Clear?

I hope he has a girlfriend/a life... confused

[xXMidniteDawnXx]

Sweetpea The Tigress

xXMidniteDawnXx

Sweetpea The Tigress

I'd say he was psychologically incestuous... sad

for us with a small vocabulary, what does that mean?

It means he's too emotionally involved with you, and that he's prying into issues that he has no business in. He's being too emotionally intimate with you by prying into your business- especially if he reads things you write about your physical/sexual development, chrushes on boys, stuff like that. Clear?

I hope he has a girlfriend/a life... confused

oh, i see. and no he doesn't.

[Sweetpea The Tigress]

xXMidniteDawnXx

Sweetpea The Tigress

xXMidniteDawnXx

Sweetpea The Tigress

I'd say he was psychologically incestuous... sad

for us with a small vocabulary, what does that mean?

It means he's too emotionally involved with you, and that he's prying into issues that he has no business in. He's being too emotionally intimate with you by prying into your business- especially if he reads things you write about your physical/sexual development, chrushes on boys, stuff like that. Clear?

I hope he has a girlfriend/a life... confused

oh, i see. and no he doesn't.

eek

Ummm... he needs to get some... no disrespect, he's not a perv, right?
Anyway, I think you need to talk to a school counselor so you can figure out how to get your dad to stop breathing on your fur...

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Talk to a councellor about this. Not on some anime forum o.o.

ANYWAYS
I went through something like that for about 13 years of my life. I'm 19 now but the fact that I have ...some issues (rather not say) came from what my father did to me. He'd read my diary, verbally abuse me in the WORST way, spy on me, listen into my phone conversations, not allow me to even socialize after school; I'd have to come straight from school, no objections. s**t like that. He's been gone now for nearly 3 years but I'm still not okay. You're at an impressionable age, even as a teenager. Regardless if you have strong willpower or whatever, it will catch up to you. People would say I was super strong and what not but after a year from when he left, I started breaking down.

If it's truely bothering you, contact your mother without him knowing, especially if you think he'd interfere somehow. You have a right to talk to her. To let her know how you feel about this. But if you think you can still live with him, with all that over-protective-ness, then go ahead. Just my two cents.

[xXMidniteDawnXx]

Sweetpea The Tigress

xXMidniteDawnXx

Sweetpea The Tigress

xXMidniteDawnXx

Sweetpea The Tigress

I'd say he was psychologically incestuous... sad

for us with a small vocabulary, what does that mean?

It means he's too emotionally involved with you, and that he's prying into issues that he has no business in. He's being too emotionally intimate with you by prying into your business- especially if he reads things you write about your physical/sexual development, chrushes on boys, stuff like that. Clear?

I hope he has a girlfriend/a life... confused

oh, i see. and no he doesn't.

eek

Ummm... he needs to get some... no disrespect, he's not a perv, right?
Anyway, I think you need to talk to a school counselor so you can figure out how to get your dad to stop breathing on your fur...

no, nothing like that is going on