What do you do if a guy..

[ShatteredSecret]

What do you do if a guy keeps touching you even after you told him to stop?

I mean.. I know this guy, and he's my ex. But the other day he called me "his girl" even though I've moved on. And he's soo touchy, and I move away whenever he starts touching me too much. And recently he's touching me more even though I tell him not to.
Until the point where I have to ignore him.

o .o I need help.

[Kitsune_of_the_Stars]

ShatteredSecret

What do you do if a guy keeps touching you even after you told him to stop?

I mean.. I know this guy, and he's my ex. But the other day he called me "his girl" even though I've moved on. And he's soo touchy, and I move away whenever he starts touching me too much. And recently he's touching me more even though I tell him not to.
Until the point where I have to ignore him.

o .o I need help.

I'm not sure how old you are,but either way I'd go tell someone in authority to get help. He's crossing lines there.

[legnanellaf5]

Cut off his hand? Or tell him off and make noise about him not listening to you then stop hanging out with him.

[xX-SlashingRoses-Xx]

His trying to imagine your still with him because that's what some guys do, (which is pretty stupid) Let him know that you guys are over, and if he still keeps touching you, slap him one and call the police or tell someone close to you in life what's happening. cheese_whine

[ShatteredSecret]

Kitsune_of_the_Stars

ShatteredSecret

What do you do if a guy keeps touching you even after you told him to stop?

I mean.. I know this guy, and he's my ex. But the other day he called me "his girl" even though I've moved on. And he's soo touchy, and I move away whenever he starts touching me too much. And recently he's touching me more even though I tell him not to.
Until the point where I have to ignore him.

o .o I need help.

I'm not sure how old you are,but either way I'd go tell someone in authority to get help. He's crossing lines there.

Lol. I'm 15. And thank you for the advice~

[ShatteredSecret]

legnanellaf5

Cut off his hand? Or tell him off and make noise about him not listening to you then stop hanging out with him.

LOL. That sounds very cruel. -gets out chainsaw- Lolololjk.

And what I did was take off my shoe and chased him away,
and I've stopped talking to him lately because of this

and thank you for the advice~

[ShatteredSecret]

xX-SlashingRoses-Xx

His trying to imagine your still with him because that's what some guys do, (which is pretty stupid) Let him know that you guys are over, and if he still keeps touching you, slap him one and call the police or tell someone close to you in life what's happening. cheese_whine

O .O some guys do that?
OHMYGOSH.

And last night I sent him a message on fb (because I'm afraid of him now and kinda creeped out with him touching me sooo much)
And basically earlier today he chased me around school once he saw me. And I kept running away.
My friend called me "cruel" for doing that. But my ex just wont respect me, so what am I supposed to do? Let him sexually harass me?
He told me "I saw the facebook message, but of course I'm not going to read it."

And I've already told people close to me what's happening, they saw it.
My friends were there when I moved over once he got in my personal space. Then he followed me, touching me. I moved again and he touched me more and gripped my arm.

I mean.. the day after I broke up with him last year he tried to force me to kiss him.
And all I did was run away.

And then a couple months ago I let him back in my life, and he keeps wanting to hug me and smell me and do weird things that make me feel sexually harassed.


And thank you for the advice~

[L0LIS]

❤ Could you stop hanging out with him at all? If he keeps touching you after you've told him no, you need to slap him or yell at him to stop. If he doesn't, you should tell someone and get the authorities involved. He's crossing the line. No means no.

[-Karma Butterfly-]

You need to defend yourself. Tell an adult about what he is doing to you.

~Karma was here~ heart

[Cannibal Girls]

☠He has no right to lay hands on you unless you want it. SPEAK UP! Don't just move away. And don't apologize when you tell him not to touch you. Don't give a little laugh. Just tell him to keep his grubby mitts off of you.☠

[The Luminosity]

ShatteredSecret

What do you do if a guy keeps touching you even after you told him to stop?

I mean.. I know this guy, and he's my ex. But the other day he called me "his girl" even though I've moved on. And he's soo touchy, and I move away whenever he starts touching me too much. And recently he's touching me more even though I tell him not to.
Until the point where I have to ignore him.

o .o I need help.

ShatteredSecret

O .O some guys do that?
OHMYGOSH.

And last night I sent him a message on fb (because I'm afraid of him now and kinda creeped out with him touching me sooo much)
And basically earlier today he chased me around school once he saw me. And I kept running away.
My friend called me "cruel" for doing that. But my ex just wont respect me, so what am I supposed to do? Let him sexually harass me?
He told me "I saw the facebook message, but of course I'm not going to read it."

And I've already told people close to me what's happening, they saw it.
My friends were there when I moved over once he got in my personal space. Then he followed me, touching me. I moved again and he touched me more and gripped my arm.

I mean.. the day after I broke up with him last year he tried to force me to kiss him.
And all I did was run away.

And then a couple months ago I let him back in my life, and he keeps wanting to hug me and smell me and do weird things that make me feel sexually harassed.


And thank you for the advice~

This guy is very dangerous. He doesn't respect you at all; to him, you're "his property" (he thinks he owns you, like a pet or an object).

He's currently molesting you, and that will eventually escalate to rape. Never go anywhere alone with him. Stop being his friend in school, Facebook, and block his number; you don't even have to explain it to him since he doesn't care about your feelings. Tell your parent(s)/guardian that he is not welcomed over the house and even inform them of the situation. Talk to the school counselor on how to properly handle this situation in school. If he continues to sexually harass you, call the police.

Unfortunately, there are many types of men out there. A lot of them are like this creepy guy, or worse. Always trust your feelings about the people around you; never doubt yourself if you feel uncomfortable or afraid of someone.

Here's more information: What is Sexual Abuse?

[xChibi Cannibalx]

Obviously you should stop being his friend as hes showing no respect towards your wishes

[Petrograd]

ShatteredSecret

O .O some guys do that?
OHMYGOSH.

And last night I sent him a message on fb (because I'm afraid of him now and kinda creeped out with him touching me sooo much)
And basically earlier today he chased me around school once he saw me. And I kept running away.
My friend called me "cruel" for doing that. But my ex just wont respect me, so what am I supposed to do? Let him sexually harass me?
He told me "I saw the facebook message, but of course I'm not going to read it."

And I've already told people close to me what's happening, they saw it.
My friends were there when I moved over once he got in my personal space. Then he followed me, touching me. I moved again and he touched me more and gripped my arm.

I mean.. the day after I broke up with him last year he tried to force me to kiss him.
And all I did was run away.

And then a couple months ago I let him back in my life, and he keeps wanting to hug me and smell me and do weird things that make me feel sexually harassed.


And thank you for the advice~

You are being sexually harassed, so your feelings are being accurate.

He needs to know he has to stop this NOW. Either be firm (saying loudly STOP, maybe yelling at him), and/or physically preventing him, and/or telling some kind of authority.

He's most likely lying about the facebook message - he read it but is lying because he's intending to ignore your rejections.

[Lashuri Chan]

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Where words have failed, action will help. Slap him. and I am being serious. You need to be aggressive about it and get mean and tell him to knock it off.

[Protonig]

Tell him to ******** off whenever he tries to feel you up. You could also stop hanging out with someone who has a possessive personality. Or threaten to report him for harassment?