I have this guy friend and we've been hanging out for a long time now. We used to text, hangout and the like. I even helped him with his love advice. just a few months ago, my friend told me that he doesn't want to hangout with me because my actions were more of a girlfriend than a friend. (Even though I didn't touch him or anything that makes it girlfriend material in my point of view. All we did was eat and go somewhere like normal friends do)
So, I tried making a change (a bit). I prevent saying things which I think it's offensive, I minimized the punching on the shoulder. I even tolerated his offensive statements to me and I hangout with him less often to prevent any more rumors. I thought it was for the best
And just last night, I suddenly received a message and it quote:
Quote:
after our conversation earlier, I am now convinced that uv bn a bad friend...to be blunt i dnt thnk that you're a friend anymore...
I can't continue because it's still too painful to read and type, but on the last message he said that
he will still talk to me and I shouldn't misunderstand the message.
I got really confused. then I asked where I did wrong? I tried to point out my faults as to why I was hurting him. he said that it was neither what I said but it is related to my attitude towards him lately and that I should figure it out.
I don't know, I don't know what to do anymore. Why am I always at fault? Why does he always say painful things to me? What is really a friend? I don't know... I just don't know anymore.. please help