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I will be quick about this:
Well the day before yesterday I was talking to the boy I liked on facebook. Somehow are discussion moved into sex and then it became sexting....
Now many would be like "WOOT! You scored with a guy you liked! Great!" But here's the catch, I don't think he sees it like "reaching second base" manner. I think he sees it more as a friends with benefits sort of thing ( for lack of a better vocabulary) He also mentioned in a previous conversation that he may still be carrying the torch for another girl
I also REALLY do not want to jump the gun here and get so crazy emotional, since I have learned that isn't exactly what you want to do with a guy you like; drives both you and him insane.

So I am going "WHAT THE HECK????" I kind of just want anyone's opinion on the issue, maybe some advice on how I should proceed on the issue or a slap in the face and a shout of "STOP BEING SO ANGSTY WOMAN!!!"


So, my problems; here ya go
You could ask him what's up. Otherwise, I would assume that it's probably just a passing fling. It, in no way, sounds serious to me.
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You could ask him what's up. Otherwise, I would assume that it's probably just a passing fling. It, in no way, sounds serious to me.


of course 3nodding talking; though easier said than done as they say. Though I think I will be chatting with him when he gets online. I didn't yesterday as a way of letting both of us sort digest what happened.
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I agree with the previous statement. If you want to proceed with a relationship with this person, you need to talk to them and find out what is happening. Otherwise, it doesn't sound like he is taking it too seriously with you. And you deserve someone who will.
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um bump?

I am allowed to bump this early in aren't I? (Oh dem rules dem rules)
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I agree with the previous statement. If you want to proceed with a relationship with this person, you need to talk to them and find out what is happening. Otherwise, it doesn't sound like he is taking it too seriously with you. And you deserve someone who will.


Well as I said I am talking to him today when he gets online :/
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I agree with the previous statement. If you want to proceed with a relationship with this person, you need to talk to them and find out what is happening. Otherwise, it doesn't sound like he is taking it too seriously with you. And you deserve someone who will.


Well as I said I am talking to him today when he gets online :/

Well, I hope that everything turns out for you today. heart Just keep positive!
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I agree with the previous statement. If you want to proceed with a relationship with this person, you need to talk to them and find out what is happening. Otherwise, it doesn't sound like he is taking it too seriously with you. And you deserve someone who will.


Well as I said I am talking to him today when he gets online :/

Well, I hope that everything turns out for you today. heart Just keep positive!


thanks, its always good to have a support when one is confused
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I will be quick about this:
Well the day before yesterday I was talking to the boy I liked on facebook. Somehow are discussion moved into sex and then it became sexting....
Now many would be like "WOOT! You scored with a guy you liked! Great!" But here's the catch, I don't think he sees it like "reaching second base" manner. I think he sees it more as a friends with benefits sort of thing ( for lack of a better vocabulary) He also mentioned in a previous conversation that he may still be carrying the torch for another girl
I also REALLY do not want to jump the gun here and get so crazy emotional, since I have learned that isn't exactly what you want to do with a guy you like; drives both you and him insane.

So I am going "WHAT THE HECK????" I kind of just want anyone's opinion on the issue, maybe some advice on how I should proceed on the issue or a slap in the face and a shout of "STOP BEING SO ANGSTY WOMAN!!!"


So, my problems; here ya go


SOMEHOW THIS HAPPENS ALOT EVEN WITH PEOPLE THAT HAVE GREAT MORALS...THATS WHAT IT ENDS UP AS...MORAL VALUES. pERSONALLY WHOOPS SORRY CAP LOCK....so when this happens UNLESS you are in love with the guy, no sexting...please. It can cause sooo many things. Unwanted things....so please be careful and yes I do know how you feel.

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I will be quick about this:
Well the day before yesterday I was talking to the boy I liked on facebook. Somehow are discussion moved into sex and then it became sexting....
Now many would be like "WOOT! You scored with a guy you liked! Great!" But here's the catch, I don't think he sees it like "reaching second base" manner. I think he sees it more as a friends with benefits sort of thing ( for lack of a better vocabulary) He also mentioned in a previous conversation that he may still be carrying the torch for another girl
I also REALLY do not want to jump the gun here and get so crazy emotional, since I have learned that isn't exactly what you want to do with a guy you like; drives both you and him insane.

So I am going "WHAT THE HECK????" I kind of just want anyone's opinion on the issue, maybe some advice on how I should proceed on the issue or a slap in the face and a shout of "STOP BEING SO ANGSTY WOMAN!!!"


So, my problems; here ya go


SOMEHOW THIS HAPPENS ALOT EVEN WITH PEOPLE THAT HAVE GREAT MORALS...THATS WHAT IT ENDS UP AS...MORAL VALUES. pERSONALLY WHOOPS SORRY CAP LOCK....so when this happens UNLESS you are in love with the guy, no sexting...please. It can cause sooo many things. Unwanted things....so please be careful and yes I do know how you feel.

gramps


Well I like to say I am in love with the guy ( and I have known him for around five years so I think I have a basic idea who he is) but I tend to be one of those people who can "fall in love easily" so I am not going to be a definite yes or no on the issue. My biggest issue in not the "sex" per say but keeping my emotions in check.
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I agree with the previous statement. If you want to proceed with a relationship with this person, you need to talk to them and find out what is happening. Otherwise, it doesn't sound like he is taking it too seriously with you. And you deserve someone who will.


Well as I said I am talking to him today when he gets online :/

Well, I hope that everything turns out for you today. heart Just keep positive!


thanks, its always good to have a support when one is confused

No problem dear. I just know that things have a way of working themselves out. :3
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I will be quick about this:
Well the day before yesterday I was talking to the boy I liked on facebook. Somehow are discussion moved into sex and then it became sexting....
Now many would be like "WOOT! You scored with a guy you liked! Great!" But here's the catch, I don't think he sees it like "reaching second base" manner. I think he sees it more as a friends with benefits sort of thing ( for lack of a better vocabulary) He also mentioned in a previous conversation that he may still be carrying the torch for another girl
I also REALLY do not want to jump the gun here and get so crazy emotional, since I have learned that isn't exactly what you want to do with a guy you like; drives both you and him insane.

So I am going "WHAT THE HECK????" I kind of just want anyone's opinion on the issue, maybe some advice on how I should proceed on the issue or a slap in the face and a shout of "STOP BEING SO ANGSTY WOMAN!!!"


So, my problems; here ya go


SOMEHOW THIS HAPPENS ALOT EVEN WITH PEOPLE THAT HAVE GREAT MORALS...THATS WHAT IT ENDS UP AS...MORAL VALUES. pERSONALLY WHOOPS SORRY CAP LOCK....so when this happens UNLESS you are in love with the guy, no sexting...please. It can cause sooo many things. Unwanted things....so please be careful and yes I do know how you feel.

gramps


Well I like to say I am in love with the guy ( and I have known him for around five years so I think I have a basic idea who he is) but I tend to be one of those people who can "fall in love easily" so I am not going to be a definite yes or no on the issue. My biggest issue in not the "sex" per say but keeping my emotions in check.


ok well if you are in love with him does he love you as much? if you infact are in love with him you neeed to know this and if he feels the same way please don't hold your feeling back....if you really love him, tell him, hold him love him...have a happy life because this is what makes the world go round
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I will be quick about this:
Well the day before yesterday I was talking to the boy I liked on facebook. Somehow are discussion moved into sex and then it became sexting....
Now many would be like "WOOT! You scored with a guy you liked! Great!" But here's the catch, I don't think he sees it like "reaching second base" manner. I think he sees it more as a friends with benefits sort of thing ( for lack of a better vocabulary) He also mentioned in a previous conversation that he may still be carrying the torch for another girl
I also REALLY do not want to jump the gun here and get so crazy emotional, since I have learned that isn't exactly what you want to do with a guy you like; drives both you and him insane.

So I am going "WHAT THE HECK????" I kind of just want anyone's opinion on the issue, maybe some advice on how I should proceed on the issue or a slap in the face and a shout of "STOP BEING SO ANGSTY WOMAN!!!"


So, my problems; here ya go


SOMEHOW THIS HAPPENS ALOT EVEN WITH PEOPLE THAT HAVE GREAT MORALS...THATS WHAT IT ENDS UP AS...MORAL VALUES. pERSONALLY WHOOPS SORRY CAP LOCK....so when this happens UNLESS you are in love with the guy, no sexting...please. It can cause sooo many things. Unwanted things....so please be careful and yes I do know how you feel.

gramps


Well I like to say I am in love with the guy ( and I have known him for around five years so I think I have a basic idea who he is) but I tend to be one of those people who can "fall in love easily" so I am not going to be a definite yes or no on the issue. My biggest issue in not the "sex" per say but keeping my emotions in check.


ok well if you are in love with him does he love you as much? if you infact are in love with him you neeed to know this and if he feels the same way please don't hold your feeling back....if you really love him, tell him, hold him love him...have a happy life because this is what makes the world go round


Well all I can say to that is "Working on it" and "easier said than done" but thank you for your advice
Maybe ask him to lunch or something? See how it goes.
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HOnestly, i wasn't aware that sexting meant you were even anything more then what you were before ._.

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