This morning at 12:45 in MD, I slowly woke up to my husband trying to not wake me up so that he could stick his erect p***s into my v****a while I was asleep.
This is not the first time he has woken me up this way.
My fear is that he has done this while I have been asleep and been successful in not waking me up.
I have expressed this to him in the past that it's disrespectful, that it is dangerous to my mental and physical well-being... But everytime he says that he is not coming in me and that I am his wife and am obligated to let him do this to me.
If anyone knows what a covert-aggressor is, please post in this thread what you know about these people or this term.
I called the cops this morning and am on my way to the court house to file a restraining order.
The biggest problem I have is that it takes a half an hour of persecuting him and hounding him to get him to even admit that he has done this stuff. I wake up with him IN me and he denies that that is what he was doing, and that I am mentally crazy.
What makes this morning different though, is that afterwards he hopped off of me, went to my work bag, found my phone, and started going through it. This shows that he has severe trust issues, and I am convinced that now the only way to help both of us is if I legally separate ourselves.
This is not the only thing that has hurt our relationship.
He does many things.
Verbally abuses me,
Ignores me,
Talks negatively about me behind my back,
Takes my things and uses/breaks them to make a point,
And I just can't take it anymore, after three years, I'm so scared that I'm going crazy.
I can't sleep well at night anymore because of two weeks ago when I cut my finger and he said to me,
"You had better not piss me off or I'll leave you and you'll have noone to help you. I only tolerate your capriciousness because I'm your husband."
He is an illegal in America. He constantly tells me if we fight that he is not with me so he can become legal.
Am I wrong in my decision to legally separate from him?