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You need to talk to him and set up a schedule. Refuse to clean unless he satisfies his part of the schedule. Only clean up after your own mess. Eventually he will cave. And if he doesn't, then there is no solution. One of my roommates is a neat freak, I am ok, and my other one is messy and never does anything. We have issues too but at the end of the day we have to suck it up a little and occasionally we remind the messy roommate. What helps is when we notice the messy roommate not doing anything, we mention it. Hey could you take out the trash its your turn.
I think it would be very difficult even if you talk to him or write him a letter, he just would not understand. Maybe he would he get it all wrong. I think what he needs right now is a professional help. Does he have a previous medical history? There is only a little thing you can do. Things might get out of hand in the long run. Have you tried taking this concern to his family or relatives or to some of his friends?

I hope everything is well now. smile

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