The Outspoken
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- Posted: Wed, 01 Jun 2005 06:52:53 +0000
Alright. The story is long, and I'm sure you don't want to hear it. Suffice to say that I am in the delicate process of asking a girl whose been a good friend of mine to become more than a friend.
At first I wasn't going to, because she's Mormon and I'm Portestant, and she's going to college two states away. Plus, I wasn't even sure if she liked me as more than a friend, or even possibly. I knew she greatly valued me as a friend.
At prom I went with a group of friends which included her. She had a "date", (more like an escort really), but she actually only danced with me there -- she didn't even dance with her date. And here's the kicker: she asked me to dance, not the other way around. Kinda surprised me.
So for about two weeks I tried to find the words. I didn't want to scare herr. I love her. Like... I can seriously see myself with her in 10 years, and there's nothing that I want more than for her to be happy. But finding words that wouldn't intimidate her, that was hard. I didn't want to scare her with something like "I love you".
I had a hard time figurng out what to say, and I could never seem to get the words out, so in the end, I wrote her a note that I gave to her on the last day. Well, two notes. One was handwritten, so I don't ahve a copy of it, but I can tell you what it basically said if you want. The other was typed, so I still have it if you want to look at it.
Anyways, I gave it to her our last day of school, and I haven't been able to talk to her since. I know that she was with family from Spain until monday. When i tried to call her.... well.... her dad wouldn't let me talk to her. She has my number but hasn't called me back yet, though I don't even know if she's read the letters yet, and even if she has.... she's incredibly busy until graduation, (this friday).
So... I'm kinda wondering what anyone thinks of this. I normally can read people's signals.... but I'm having trouble with this one.
At first I wasn't going to, because she's Mormon and I'm Portestant, and she's going to college two states away. Plus, I wasn't even sure if she liked me as more than a friend, or even possibly. I knew she greatly valued me as a friend.
At prom I went with a group of friends which included her. She had a "date", (more like an escort really), but she actually only danced with me there -- she didn't even dance with her date. And here's the kicker: she asked me to dance, not the other way around. Kinda surprised me.
So for about two weeks I tried to find the words. I didn't want to scare herr. I love her. Like... I can seriously see myself with her in 10 years, and there's nothing that I want more than for her to be happy. But finding words that wouldn't intimidate her, that was hard. I didn't want to scare her with something like "I love you".
I had a hard time figurng out what to say, and I could never seem to get the words out, so in the end, I wrote her a note that I gave to her on the last day. Well, two notes. One was handwritten, so I don't ahve a copy of it, but I can tell you what it basically said if you want. The other was typed, so I still have it if you want to look at it.
Anyways, I gave it to her our last day of school, and I haven't been able to talk to her since. I know that she was with family from Spain until monday. When i tried to call her.... well.... her dad wouldn't let me talk to her. She has my number but hasn't called me back yet, though I don't even know if she's read the letters yet, and even if she has.... she's incredibly busy until graduation, (this friday).
So... I'm kinda wondering what anyone thinks of this. I normally can read people's signals.... but I'm having trouble with this one.