Too many girls are after my boyfriend

[blackLKC]

nahhhh ur bf is still urs...
so dont be worry

[retro softcore hardcore]

I've been through this in a way too. When the girls do things like that, definitely assert yourself. If you're uncomfortable with something they do, let them know it. Don't sit idly by while they do things like that. It's inappropriate.

The important thing to remember is that he loves YOU and wouldn't be with you if he didn't want to be. He considers you his girlfriend and I'll bet he doesn't really even notice the things girls do at this point unless he's interested himself.

[they were only satellites]

This isn't that much of a problem; girls look at your guy, but it's not like he's looking back as if he's interested. You're still dating him, so obviously he's not going to run into the arms of anyone who checks him out or sits on his lap.

[sweaty latina]

agreeing with other people saying be more assertive. instead of just standing there and not doing anything, say, "excuse me, that's my seat." or if they try to flirt with him, touch him, sit in his lap, etc. tell them to back off.

[DisastaDoug_Kipner]

Tell the women that after the sex change you can hardly tell there used to be a man "down there"

[dink-a-dink]

I don't know how long you guys have been together, but honestly, I don't think it's just the girls' fault.

If some girl takes your seat, and your boyfriend is a witness to this, he should have said something, like, "*your name* is coming right back and she's gonna want her seat back."
Your boyfriend doesn't seem to know where the line is, and maybe you should talk to him about it.
If he respects how you feel, I don't think slightly shifting his interactions with other females is such a big deal. If he's oblivious to the signals that girls try to send, then I'm not sure what to tell you.

Sure, you should be assertive at times, but I don't think your relationship struggles or insecurities should go unnoticed. If you bottle your emotions, it'll come out somehow. And it won't be pretty.

[MayIin]

Yeah i'm guessing your boyfriend is just use to it.
if girls stare at him you should start putting your arms around him
and make them jealous XD!

[V-ball3310]

I know exactly how you feel! Girls are the same way with my boyfriend and it annoys the hell out of me i wanna dropkick them out a window sometimes!

[buu kitty]

He's probably so used to it that the doesn't really notice anymore.
You could try talking to him, maybe he'll start telling the other girls to ******** off or something.
Or you could be more assertive. When a girl starts flirting with him in front of you, sit on his lap, hold onto his arm, kiss him. Something like that. Let everyone know that he's your man.

[Fial Neilans little moon]

If he's so used to it you should be open to him and tell him that if you're near him you'd like him to recognize you. The assertiveness can be done with you but he can help. If he likes the flirting so much and starts to ignore you when these girls are flirting with him, confront him about it. It's just as much his job to make sure you are comfortable with yourself in these situations as it is yours.

[la B e c k y _x]

Firstly, he's with you. He clearly likes you, or he wouldn't be with you. Be assertive like others said, but don't start going crazy about the other girls. Unless he is flirting back, you have nothing to worry about.

[Jakabok]

You need to tell him you're not comfortable with this, if he's used to it, he wont notice its bothering you.

Or you could forget about it, he's with you, and if you trust he wont stray, theres not problem.

[Kristifireangel]

Does he not mind PDA? I had a boyfriend where this girl would not leave him alone. I made her extremly mad one day because she grabbed his hand and was leading him to a deserted hallway during school well I followed them came up put my arms around him kissed and said "hey baby what's up?" everytime she would try I'd be right there hugging him or calling him baby or saying something like "I can't wait till we're alone tonight" this method takes a little while and a lot of guts but trust me the results are worth it!
If your bf starts to feel uncomfortable with this then maybe you should just explain that these girls bother you. I think that couples should stand up for their relationships. Now if girls are talking to him that's fine just because someone's taken doesn't mean they can't talk to anyone but if they get a little too flirty or do something way outside your guys bounderies he needs to say something.