Too many girls are after my boyfriend

[Lilac Chica]

I usually don't date the type of guy girls stare at on the street, so this is fairly new to me.

Random girls we pass by on the street openly stare and gawk at him, and check him out. When we go into shops, girls working there smile, blush, and flirt with him as if I'm not even standing there.

Girls will try to sit in his lap, even when I am there and THEIR OWN boyfriends are sitting right there.

And recently we were at a party- my boyfriend was sitting on the end, I was sitting next to him, and a girl sat down on the other side of me to talk to us. I got up to go to the bathroom, and when I came back, the girl had moved and was sitting in my seat! And she didn't get up when I came back.

I think my boyfriend doesn't think it's a big deal when girls act like this, so he doesn't put a stop to it. What I'm wondering is what I can do, how I can deal with this better. Because it's stressful to feel like a bunch of vultures are always watching my bf.

[The Love of Money]

if he's used to it then he isn't going to respond to them.

[Lilac Chica]

A Fistful of Death Spiral

Lilac Chica

*thinly veiled brag*

FASCINATING!

Oh get over yourself. The mere mention that someone is attractive shouldn't cause you to have this kind of a conniption. Some people are attractive, you should get used to that fact and move past it to the relevant topic. I don't need to brag to LI about my boyfriend's looks. And in case you missed it I said I usually do not date guys who people have this reaction to.

[Prince Yasui Erikai]

You can try introducing yourself as his girlfriend, when they try to talk to him. (Let the other girls know you mean business.) Or you can tell your boyfriend to think about your feelings when he gives into other females flirting. If he doesn't change, or at least try to comply to your wishes, then you're wasting your time with him.

[Lilac Chica]

A Fistful of Death Spiral

Lilac Chica

Some people are attractive, you should get used to that fact and move past it

Stellar advice maybe you should ******** listen to it. rolleyes

It's easier to get over the fact that people in general can be attractive and that can cause problems for people who date them. It's harder to get over the fact that there is something precious to you, that strangers everywhere you go look at like it's a piece of meat swinging in the wind, that they would gladly stab you in the back to get at.

[Nobuo_Uematsu_fairy]

Be more assertive...if a girl took your seat, sit in his lap and flirt with him.

[Bakanekokao]

Be more assertive.

[Lilac Chica]

Nobuo_Uematsu_fairy

Be more assertive...if a girl took your seat, sit in his lap and flirt with him.

What should I do in situations where girls are staring at him on the street or a shop worker is giggling and blushing at him? Should I ignore it if it only goes that far, or should I do something?

[Bakanekokao]

You have to turn the other cheek and ignore it. You can't make people stop staring, just let it go.

[MarmeeXnoir]

Looking isn't going after your boyfriend. That's just what it is.. LOOKING, which isn't that big of deal unless you're one of those girls that don't even want people with a v****a talking to their boyfriend. If not, then get over that part, nothing you can do unless you want to look crazy by screaming no at them.


As for girls flirting with him standing right in front of you. Do something about it, maybe make it more apparent that he's not single and with you. Like someone else said, sit in his lap.. maybe kiss him before you leave somewhere.


Mostly keep in mind. That if he ignores their looks and their advances than you really have nothing to worry about.

[rococo_cicatrix]

Lilac Chica

Nobuo_Uematsu_fairy

Be more assertive...if a girl took your seat, sit in his lap and flirt with him.

What should I do in situations where girls are staring at him on the street or a shop worker is giggling and blushing at him? Should I ignore it if it only goes that far, or should I do something?

As for girls sitting in his lap and stuff, I'm with everyone else- just assert yourself as his girlfriend. It's okay for you to push back a bit.

As for this part, get over it? This shouldn't even be an issue. Unless he's handing his number to all the giggly staring girls, it's kind of dumb for this to be a problem. If anything, you should be kind of proud to be with a guy that girls will giggle and blush over.