together forEVER

[Sukomo]

okay well
my boyfriend of about 3 months have been talking

and we can both actually imagine getting married and having a family together

i mean, i have never cared this much for a single person in my whole life.

and i know almost 3 months isn't much to go off of, but we're so close.
we talk about everything
i think he knows me more then i know me sometimes

but okay here's the kicker.
I'm 17, and he's 15.

i know this is unrealistic thinking, but I actually believe it could happen

is this even an issue?
what do you think LI

[Cotton Candy Kisses]---------------------------♥

[My Gut]

There's a phrase for this. Its called puppy love. I can assure you it'll ware off and then he'll just be some immature kid to you sooner or later, if not, then congrats.

[Nobuo_Uematsu_fairy]

I think you should just go with the flow for awhile, and not worry about it. It's not a pressing issue, unless he completely doesn't believe in marriage and will never get married. Then you might think about where the relationship is headed. But, since it's only been a few months, I think you shouldn't worry about it.

[A Clockwork Death Spiral]

Pre-emptive condolences. crying

[Silitha]

Ah..!

Alright, WANTING to get married is one thing. I mean as long as you don't ACTUALLY do it any time soon.


I was with my ex for FOUR AND A HALF YEARS and we jsut broke up, I was sure i was going to marry him.

It's perfectly ok to be optimistic, just don't be unrealistic

[Tranzice]

Sukomo

okay well
my boyfriend of about 3 months have been talking

and we can both actually imagine getting married and having a family together

i mean, i have never cared this much for a single person in my whole life.

and i know almost 3 months isn't much to go off of, but we're so close.
we talk about everything
i think he knows me more then i know me sometimes

but okay here's the kicker.
I'm 17, and he's 15.

i know this is unrealistic thinking, but I actually believe it could happen

is this even an issue?
what do you think LI

[Cotton Candy Kisses]---------------------------♥

it isnt unrealistic that it could happen. what would make it unrealistic is if you were to plan on a wedding and get your hopes too high. you need to give it some time. A lot can change in short amounts of time so make sure you know what you are doing. marriage is a big responsibility. you both need jobs, living arrangements, money, and education. so keep those things in mind.

[Self-Proclaimed Loser]

Honestly? I think your jumping into things. Yes, "true love" or whatever can happen at a young age but it is very rare. You will change so much within the next 3 or 4 years so just wait it out...

[Dads Creepy Friend]

Hahaha no sorry no

[Strawberry_Harley]

Look, darling, I know you want to believe that you're going to be with this boy forever, but I can remember being younger and thinking that I was going to marry my boyfriend, too. I thought it was going to happen because we had been together longer than I had ever been in a relationship and I thought I was completely in love. But just because you've never cared for someone like you do for him doesn't mean that he's the one. If I were you, I would wait. Wait and see where the relationship takes you. Give it more time.

[sweaty latina]

there is no issue here. you're dating a boy you're in love with, good for you. all you can do is continue to love him and hope that you can do things like get married and have a family in the future. my advice is to just take it easy for now. enjoy what you have, don't focus on being omg serious. don't plan on getting engaged for another few years. just... focus on getting to know each other better. 3 months is nothing. I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years and I still don't know everything about him.

[PimpinEggs]

Your so young still, hopefully both your partner and your emotions are strong enough and you guys do last forever.

Best of wishes to you <3

[Arsenic-S]

My parents are 5 years apart. I know another couple who are 10 years apart. My boyfriend of 4 years is three years older than me. Two years is *nothing*

But don't go letting yourself get blinded by the infatuation. Three months is WAY too early to tell if this is a "compatible for life" thing. Actually, my boyfriend and I had been together for TWO years, moved in with one another, and only then found out we had severe issues with one another that we weren't sure we could live with. We lived together for about 1 and a half years then went our separate ways. Though we're still dating, it's pretty shifty right now.

My point is - Just. Don't. Worry. About it. You're happy together now, and that's all that matters. You can have fun with the "what ifs", but just don't go crazy with it. Focus on the here and now, and let whatever comes just come. Remember that you're both still really young, and I promise you, you will both change substantially by the time you both are out of high school. It's just part of growing up.

[t-20-07]

Me and my girlfriend are pretty much the same way, except we've been together for 6 months.
And there is also an age difference between me and her, but it's only one year instead of two.
Honestly, I wanna be with her forever too and can also imagining getting married and raising a family by her side and with her by mine, but sometimes I would get a little worried that it may never happen just because you hear about people around here breaking up with someone who they've been with for multiple years. But you just have to not worry and let life take you where it will. That doesn't mean not to try living though and not to try to lead your relationship to an everlasting successful one.
Being together forever is actually possible. I found my special someone, and you may have found yours. The trick is to always have faith and not to compare your relationship to others. Just keep remembering that everybody is different.

That's pretty much all I have on the topic. It's just my view of things. Anything is possible.

[Sukomo]

uhm, yeah guys, it's not like we're going to get married like, TOMORROW

and no, it's not 'puppy love'

I don't want to get married until I'm in my twenties at least

and that leaves us like, at a minimum of like, 4 years

[Cotton Candy Kisses]---------------------------♥

[British Tourettes]

You still have 3 years before you can get legally married, so at this point there's nothing to worry about. 3 months is very early to start thinking these thoughts for more than one reason. Reason 1: He's still very young and has a lot of mental growing to do. As do you. Your personalities can change into something that is no longer compatible. There's always a chance of this at every age, but it's so much higher because of rapid mental growth during teen years. Reason 2: 3 months isn't long enough to truly get to know someone, or for them to truly get to know you. It may seem like he knows you really well, but there's so much more than a surface knowledge of you. Reason 3: Wait until you start noticing his annoying tics. Everyone has them. It's just a matter of is it something that's a deal breaker to you or not. It might not be so bad at first, but after a while it can be too much for a person. He still has to notice your tics too. Reason 4: You will lose the honeymoon stage. This is unavoidable and normal. Some people can still make it work while others can't. Anything can happen.

But like I said, you still have 3 years before anything can happen anyway, so enjoy it while it lasts. If you guys do end up getting married, yay. If you guys end up breaking up, it was a life experience.

Also, your pixels are very nice. I'm bookmarking your shop. Nothing to do with the conversation, but eh.