Wraith of Azrael
(?)Community Member
- Posted: Thu, 26 Apr 2012 02:59:36 +0000
Sup, for those who don't know who this regular is I'm pretty much ED's local Chubby chaser/ FA and I'd like some input on my issue...again.
The good news now though is that I'm half way confident with myself to express my preferences pretty clearly now (huzzah) and have decided that life won't wait and there's no point trying to please everyone and be embarassed about my preference (Fat chicks, DERP) so I'm somewhat better than what I was, but I'm still pretty bad...
And now the bad news, I'm still messed in the head neutral . Despite the acceptance of such things I still have a case of cognitive disonance...
Basically, the (fat) women who I am sexually attracted to I am also simultaneously disgusted by. Needless to say, this is pretty weird.
It's even weirder though because the women that I think I should be attracted to I'm not attracted to at all.
It's kinda odd like that. By all my rationalisations I should be attracted to types X,Y, or Z but instead I'm attracted to W. I ofcourse don't actually like W at all (despite being sexually attracted to it) so it leaves me relatively frustated.
The only women who I am sexually interested in I have no interest in at all and the women who I think are absolutely beautiful (AND fat) are the women that I'm not sexually interested in...
Just..AGH!!
I'm still not fixed...
Getting there but...nope neutral
The good news now though is that I'm half way confident with myself to express my preferences pretty clearly now (huzzah) and have decided that life won't wait and there's no point trying to please everyone and be embarassed about my preference (Fat chicks, DERP) so I'm somewhat better than what I was, but I'm still pretty bad...
And now the bad news, I'm still messed in the head neutral . Despite the acceptance of such things I still have a case of cognitive disonance...
Basically, the (fat) women who I am sexually attracted to I am also simultaneously disgusted by. Needless to say, this is pretty weird.
It's even weirder though because the women that I think I should be attracted to I'm not attracted to at all.
It's kinda odd like that. By all my rationalisations I should be attracted to types X,Y, or Z but instead I'm attracted to W. I ofcourse don't actually like W at all (despite being sexually attracted to it) so it leaves me relatively frustated.
The only women who I am sexually interested in I have no interest in at all and the women who I think are absolutely beautiful (AND fat) are the women that I'm not sexually interested in...
Just..AGH!!
I'm still not fixed...
Getting there but...nope neutral