Surrounded by gays

[[_Naoki - chan_]]

I didn't want the criticizing people to come here. I came to relate to others not to be lectured by everyone sweatdrop

[AyeshaNuriko3350]

homosexuality is wrong.
but let ppl b

[JustAnotherModernSwinger]

...Well, when you create a thread like this you have to expect people who actually have their own opinions to post them.

[Naiya Masoka]

~Nomiata~

Naoki-kun

listen. I do not have anything against gays. I have to admit at one point I was bi. People are not born with it but it is their choice. I am not saying trying to make a point. I was just trying to relate to those in the same situation. Gawd. What are these people doing in an advice giving section? crying

For you it may have been a choice, that is called a fad.
For many it is simply who they are. A homosexual's only choice is acknowledging their sexuality or not.

And you set up this discussion, not us.

I agree. For many gays and lesbins, even bi's, it truly is not their choice.

It's simply their way of life, and they are happy with that. If you could just stop being bi, then you really weren't. Human sexuality is not that simply of a thing.

[Teki]

Naoki-kun

I have a friend who is bi...4 teachers at my school are gay and one of my friend is into yaoi. I'm not saying that I am one to but I just want other people's opinions of the situation crying

LMAO i have 4 Gay freinds and 1 pan freind, 1 bi- curious, 2 of my freinds are into Yaoi and there are 2 lesbian teachers at my school and your the one surround by them? dont worry about it if your not your not just enjoy your gay freinds for what they are.

[SyphaBelnades]

Naoki-kun

listen. I do not have anything against gays. I have to admit at one point I was bi. People are not born with it but it is their choice. I am not saying trying to make a point. I was just trying to relate to those in the same situation. Gawd. What are these people doing in an advice giving section? crying

There are many who are gay who wish they were not. That is to say it isn't always a choice.

[Teki]

Naoki-kun

listen. I do not have anything against gays. I have to admit at one point I was bi. People are not born with it but it is their choice. I am not saying trying to make a point. I was just trying to relate to those in the same situation. Gawd. What are these people doing in an advice giving section? crying

I used to think the same way that people chose it but then i met this guy who is now my best freind in the whole world, he was a closet Gay and i was the only person he told because i told him i loved him etc. He sometimes would get really depressed and want to do bad things to himself because he was Gay he didnt want to be that way, because of society he was so scared of people like you saying they were sad for him being that way or people makeing fun and critzeign him or being discriminated against. So because i loved him i encouraged him to come out he did a little and then i introduced him to my other gay freind and there going out now and they like each other and i can see that hes happier and anyone who says anything bad about them will get the back of my hand to there head and my boot so far up there a** it will neve be seen again. ....my old boots i like my new ones xp


Edit: by the way i am a christian and i feel that as far as sexual prefrence etc is concerned i let God deal with it if he thinks its wrong then he the almighty one not me. there are more Evil people in the world i can hate like Rapists for example.

[+Trynyti+]

Since I'm Christian, I don't exactly support them. But I don't hate them and condemn them to hell either. A few of my brother's really good friends are gay, and they're really cool people. Only problem I have is how one of them keeps bugging me to take me shopping...says I need a new wardrobe... sweatdrop

[Ragers]

...'Kay, what's the issue? Take someone for who they are, not what they are. What goes on behind someone else's closed door isn't your business.

[Arotoamin]

Who cares what their sexual orientation is? If you can't deal with it, ignore it (though you'll be a bit of an a*****e). And by the way, your sexual orientation isn't a CHOICE. I'm bisexual. No, not like the other prostitot 'Oh, I'm bi so I can be a whore and sleep with everybody!'. I'm literally split down the middle and find men AND women attractive. I don't see gender when I look at people. I see them as just people. I didn't choose to be like this. I would NEVER have chosen to be this way.

And my best friend is gay and a wonderful person. Open up your mind and you might just learn something from the people around you.

[navyl33tmaster]

Naoki-kun

I have a friend who is bi...4 teachers at my school are gay and one of my friend is into yaoi. I'm not saying that I am one to but I just want other people's opinions of the situation crying

Consider that as far as being surrounded by a homosexually themed community is something you don't have to live in. the kind of community where if you are NOT gay/bi/lesbian you will still find yourself performing some of the "gay chicken" type stuff...

I used to live on a 300 yard long metal tube full of 150 guys (submarine) the motto down there is "what happens underweigh stays underweigh"

[Drei Kiliro]

Naoki-kun

and one of my friend is into yaoi.

Just as a side note...the directed audience for yaoi is straight females. Most actual yaoi fans are heterosexual females. Much like a lot of lesbian porn is directed towards straight males.

[Dingbat]

ummm..... I hope you aren't homophobic....
I feel no one should have a problem with gays, bi-s, or lesbians.....
if you really do, than you should tell your parents to transfer you to a different school or you could move and never go back

[Slash Bandit]

Hmm...

I'm actually in the opposite situation. I'm surrounded by straight people. And only some people at school (my friends and myself) are into Yaoi.

It's like how I have to deal with being surrounded by straight people. (But I mean EVERYONE) It's just something that happens. It shouldn't matter if the person is straight, gay, lesbian, bi, or transexual. It's the personality that counts.

And like my friend once said. "Heterosexuality isn't normal. It's common." It's vice versa basically for homosexuality.

You'll live. If you're not hit on, it shouldn't matter, right? I'd understand feeling a bit uncomfortable, but you'll get used to it.

[sh1n0bu]

What is the issue here? None of us can help you if you don't give us a problem to solve stressed