LoveIsMyPoison
Robot Giny
LoveIsMyPoison
Neverwise
LoveIsMyPoison
Neverwise
Are you far enough along to show? Not everyone finds a pregnant woman to be attractive.
Im showing a little bit... but ive only gained like 4 pounds.
im 4 1/2 months
Have you sat down and asked him properly about this?
yeah he says he just doesnt have a sex drive as of lately... but its been 3 months only getting laid every week or so and hes the only one who gets off
He's being selfish in bed? That's not cool. That really does need to be communicated to him. You're not a masturbation sock.
If he's not willing to actually
have sex with you, and prioritize your pleasure just as much as his, then there's really no point in having sex at all. Did you have a satisfying sex life before?
We had great sex before, we had sex every day and it was fantastic i usuallly finished 2 or 3 times a go... but just recently hes been selfish
Well that's your problem then. And this is where communication becomes really important, because now you need to tell him, and
nobody likes that conversation.
But it needs to be had. You need to tell him that you don't understand why he's been so selfish in bed, but it's really hurting you. Maybe you feel like he's just using your body to get off, and it's not a way for you two to connect anymore. Bottom line, you don't exist just to help him get off so he can sleep at night. If he's not willing to pull his head out of his a** and
tell you what his problem is, you're certainly not going to keep having unsatisfying sex.
...Well, maybe use a bit more tact then I did. But that's basically the conversation you need to have. Something is obviously bothering him, and he needs to tell you what it is. Is he anxious about the pregnancy? Was it unexpected? How long have the two of you been together?