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Tell his current girlfriend and ruin this relationship and then get a hotter boyfriend. Oh and chop his parents up and put them into chilli and serve it to him. <3
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Honey Bones
btw kat its matthew ahaha <333333

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this little b***h did cry back to me haha.
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Tell his current girlfriend and ruin this relationship and then get a hotter boyfriend. Oh and chop his parents up and put them into chilli and serve it to him. <3

Haha, serve his parents in stew.
Naah, but I'd tell the girlfriend, not to be a b***h, but because it isn't right o:.
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I could have sworn you've been over this before.

Yeah, agreeing, ya shouldn't have done that s**t. That was stupid, bad, all of the above. So basically, you did the wrong thing, then kind of did the right thing? Just don't even have ANYTHING to do with him at all. If you can't avoid him, be civil of course, but don't allow extended contact. Just get out of there. He doesn't need to be in your life in any way, shape, or form. Be strong, and be better than this. Don't sleep with him to verify that you have power over him or to prove a point. It's a shitty thing to do and all you do is devalue yourself and what sex means to you.

Also wtf Honey Bones. Angel may not be right 100% of the time, but that doesn't give you any reason to try and be shitty. It's pretty hypocritical for you to go off dissing her about being a coward and yet all you're doing is talking s**t on the internet like you're accusing her of doing. Gtfo.
your ex is basically using you??
Don't be giving away your p***y so easily
It's kinda sad...
You did good.
If you don't want to be with him anymore, don't.
He's not good for you, and you'll end up being paranoid about him cheating again.
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You did good.
If you don't want to be with him anymore, don't.
He's not good for you, and you'll end up being paranoid about him cheating again.


I don't want him anymore, but it did bug me that he looked for me. It was a mistake.
I knew he was going to pick her again, I just want him to feel what I felt when he walked away from me. razz
I don't cry slut lightly, but for people who cheat and/or help others cheat? Yeah that's slutty. If you don't want him you have no reason to be a b***h like that. Helping him cheat just hurts everyone. (I know he's equally to blame, but he's not here so yeah.)

But really, if you don't even want him why would you sleep with him? Like, even if he was single? Did you just want a casual ********? Nothing wrong with that but next time make sure the damn guy is single :/ Really, if it's a recent ex who's crying to get you back, personally I wouldn't even sleep with him then because it would just make things complicated and he would get hurt (of course, I'm going on the idea that he truly missed you, instead of crying to manipulate you into sex. If that's the case, you still should have said no). Looks like he came on to you, but why couldn't you just say no? That's just a really terrible thing for both of you to do. You should both be ashamed of yourselves and he doesn't deserve his girlfriend.

If either of these people has done anything to you that you're angry over and wanted revenge or something, grow a pair and walk away. You don't NEED revenge. Only weak, immature people scheme and pull revenge bullshit. I think you need to make your apologies and walk away from the situation. Just leave these people alone. They don't have to be part of your life anymore. Ignore them if they talk to you, avoid them if they approach you, but please apologize for the damage you helped cause.

Also, Honey Bones, just because Angel is blunt doesn't mean she's wrong here. In my experience, almost all the time she gives good advice. Just because it's something someone doesn't want to hear doesn't mean it's the wrong thing to say. People just don't like hearing that they're wrong.
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First off, I'm not going to slut-shame you or call you names.

Yeah, you screwed up big-time by ******** a guy who has a girlfriend. You make it clear that this is about control, and yet the only control you have is over how miserable an innocent bystander (the girlfriend) gets to be.

The girlfriend deserves to know she's getting used by both of you. You were right not to enable the ex to ******** her over a second time - but he's probably just going to find someone else and drag her through all sorts of hell if he treats his rebounds as though they're nothing.
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I don't cry slut lightly, but for people who cheat and/or help others cheat? Yeah that's slutty. If you don't want him you have no reason to be a b***h like that. Helping him cheat just hurts everyone. (I know he's equally to blame, but he's not here so yeah.)

But really, if you don't even want him why would you sleep with him? Like, even if he was single? Did you just want a casual ********? Nothing wrong with that but next time make sure the damn guy is single :/ Really, if it's a recent ex who's crying to get you back, personally I wouldn't even sleep with him then because it would just make things complicated and he would get hurt (of course, I'm going on the idea that he truly missed you, instead of crying to manipulate you into sex. If that's the case, you still should have said no). Looks like he came on to you, but why couldn't you just say no? That's just a really terrible thing for both of you to do. You should both be ashamed of yourselves and he doesn't deserve his girlfriend.

If either of these people has done anything to you that you're angry over and wanted revenge or something, grow a pair and walk away. You don't NEED revenge. Only weak, immature people scheme and pull revenge bullshit. I think you need to make your apologies and walk away from the situation. Just leave these people alone. They don't have to be part of your life anymore. Ignore them if they talk to you, avoid them if they approach you, but please apologize for the damage you helped cause.

Also, Honey Bones, just because Angel is blunt doesn't mean she's wrong here. In my experience, almost all the time she gives good advice. Just because it's something someone doesn't want to hear doesn't mean it's the wrong thing to say. People just don't like hearing that they're wrong.
blunt? no sweet heart . She isnt BLUNT she's fake , She avidly admits this in her profile . Come back to me when you can bring something legit to the table <3 XOXO
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I don't cry slut lightly, but for people who cheat and/or help others cheat? Yeah that's slutty. If you don't want him you have no reason to be a b***h like that. Helping him cheat just hurts everyone. (I know he's equally to blame, but he's not here so yeah.)

But really, if you don't even want him why would you sleep with him? Like, even if he was single? Did you just want a casual ********? Nothing wrong with that but next time make sure the damn guy is single :/ Really, if it's a recent ex who's crying to get you back, personally I wouldn't even sleep with him then because it would just make things complicated and he would get hurt (of course, I'm going on the idea that he truly missed you, instead of crying to manipulate you into sex. If that's the case, you still should have said no). Looks like he came on to you, but why couldn't you just say no? That's just a really terrible thing for both of you to do. You should both be ashamed of yourselves and he doesn't deserve his girlfriend.

If either of these people has done anything to you that you're angry over and wanted revenge or something, grow a pair and walk away. You don't NEED revenge. Only weak, immature people scheme and pull revenge bullshit. I think you need to make your apologies and walk away from the situation. Just leave these people alone. They don't have to be part of your life anymore. Ignore them if they talk to you, avoid them if they approach you, but please apologize for the damage you helped cause.

Also, Honey Bones, just because Angel is blunt doesn't mean she's wrong here. In my experience, almost all the time she gives good advice. Just because it's something someone doesn't want to hear doesn't mean it's the wrong thing to say. People just don't like hearing that they're wrong.
........slutty ....really? Please tell me how thats slutty ? maybe vengeful but not slutty , Slutty is when shes had sex with over 5 people in a span of a week and I assure you shes never done that. Open your eyes sweet cheeks because the world she and I live in is OBVIOUSLY not the one you live in .
Honey Bones
HappyLittleRaincloud
I don't cry slut lightly, but for people who cheat and/or help others cheat? Yeah that's slutty. If you don't want him you have no reason to be a b***h like that. Helping him cheat just hurts everyone. (I know he's equally to blame, but he's not here so yeah.)

But really, if you don't even want him why would you sleep with him? Like, even if he was single? Did you just want a casual ********? Nothing wrong with that but next time make sure the damn guy is single :/ Really, if it's a recent ex who's crying to get you back, personally I wouldn't even sleep with him then because it would just make things complicated and he would get hurt (of course, I'm going on the idea that he truly missed you, instead of crying to manipulate you into sex. If that's the case, you still should have said no). Looks like he came on to you, but why couldn't you just say no? That's just a really terrible thing for both of you to do. You should both be ashamed of yourselves and he doesn't deserve his girlfriend.

If either of these people has done anything to you that you're angry over and wanted revenge or something, grow a pair and walk away. You don't NEED revenge. Only weak, immature people scheme and pull revenge bullshit. I think you need to make your apologies and walk away from the situation. Just leave these people alone. They don't have to be part of your life anymore. Ignore them if they talk to you, avoid them if they approach you, but please apologize for the damage you helped cause.

Also, Honey Bones, just because Angel is blunt doesn't mean she's wrong here. In my experience, almost all the time she gives good advice. Just because it's something someone doesn't want to hear doesn't mean it's the wrong thing to say. People just don't like hearing that they're wrong.
........slutty ....really? Please tell me how thats slutty ? maybe vengeful but not slutty , Slutty is when shes had sex with over 5 people in a span of a week and I assure you shes never done that. Open your eyes sweet cheeks because the world she and I live in is OBVIOUSLY not the one you live in .


So your definition of slutty has to be EVERYONE'S definition of slutty? :/ Sorry, I just happen to view casual sex as not slutty as long as everyone's safe about it. Helping someone to cheat IS slutty, to me, because that is a TAKEN person,someone who's OFF the market, not someone who's single or in an open relationship who has permission to sleep/be with other people. And she totally disregarded that. She obviously has no respect for her ex or his new girlfriend if she's going around doing things like that. Inb4 "WELL IT WAS HIS FAULT TOO!1!1!!" yes indeed it was, he is just as to blame, but he's not here right now so she is the focus of my posts.

I'm not arguing the vengeful, though. But it was extremely small and immature of her to be vengeful. The need for revenge takes our eyes away from far more important, healthy and positive things, and it hurts other people. It was a terrible thing to do no matter what he did.

Going back to your previous extremely (and unnecessarily) rude and condescending quote of me, yes, she's blunt. Her profile says she pretends to be mean. Blunt does not equal mean. Blunt is mistaken for mean when little kids with thin skin get butthurt over people not telling them what they want to hear. And who cares if she pretends to be mean? It's better than pretending to be nice. Sometimes people need to pretend to be mean on this forum because that's the only way to get the immature ones to listen.

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