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Alright, let me just say before you read this that yes, I know it's stupid and soap-opera-ish. Seriously, I had no idea stuff like this really happened in real life. lol ...... sweatdrop I really feel stupid just being in the situation, but I really think I need an outside opinion. So what's on today's episode of Nidhogg's Life? Of course, it has to be a boy issue. Make that a double boy issue.

Yes, you guessed it: I have to decide between two boys. rolleyes Since I have no idea who I know IRL who's on here, let's just call them A and B.
So the deal with A is that I've pretty much liked him since I met him (about a month ago when school started, since I just moved to where I am about three months ago). He's pretty funny, has good taste in music, and we're on the same sports team, so that's an interest in common. The thing is, I haven't really talked to him all that much, since he was home sick for a whole week, and the rest of the time I've... well, I've been scared to death since I can't talk to guys, so really, I know little other than that he's a bit geeky and... well, has some stereotypical guy tendencies like occasional extreme stupidity (no offense to all you guys out there... I say stereotypical and not typical for a reason).
Now on to B: Unlike A, I really wasn't interested in him in the slightest... at first. A is a bit crazy and goofy, but B... it's not so much that he's quiet as that he doesn't talk just for the sake of talking. He seems kinda smart, and well... he's actually been trying to be my friend instead of just someone else on the team (yeah, the three of us are actually on the same sports team, and it's a small team, so that makes things more complicated in the sense that everyone knows what's going on with everyone). He's just easier to talk to, I guess... The thing here is that I feel like I should like him, and that I could... quite frankly, he seems more like my kind of guy than most other boys I've met... but I feel like he's more of a friend than an interest, and that... confuses me. neutral
So to sum all that up, I'm attracted to A, but I feel like B is more my type, even though the sparks aren't there... A has his flaws, but I don't really know all his strengths, either, and I feel like I should be interested in B, but I'm not, and I have no idea why. Hmm... I guess it's not entirely a decision question, after all... but regardless, I'd like your thoughts (excluding the, "OMG, Days of Our Lives is more realistic than this." )
 
     
 
I say try to build a decent friendship before you dive into a relationship. You haven't known either guy very long, it doesn't seem you know either very well. Get to know them, THEN figure out who you like better.
     

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I say try to build a decent friendship before you dive into a relationship. You haven't known either guy very long, it doesn't seem you know either very well. Get to know them, THEN figure out who you like better.
 
     

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First of all, stop saying "should like". There is no such thing. It would be better if you gave yourself the time to get to know both of them better. Hang out with them and see who makes you smile. You barely know them, so enjoy the time you have to get to know them. Don't rush into a relationship. Enjoy the game ;p
     

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I say try to build a decent friendship before you dive into a relationship. You haven't known either guy very long, it doesn't seem you know either very well. Get to know them, THEN figure out who you like better.
 
     
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Makes sense. Thanks. redface
     
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holy s**t i had the exact same problem a little while ago your A and B even sound like mine! . how i resolved it ? i didnt. my B got a girlfriend
 
     
 
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holy s**t i had the exact same problem a little while ago your A and B even sound like mine! . how i resolved it ? i didnt. my B got a girlfriend

sorry i cant be more help!
     

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