...She's a rebound...

[I feel you in my heart]

So I dated this girl for fours months; She was my first girlfriend and first kiss. When I first started dating her, like within the first week, I found out a girl I had known and been friends with for two years was bisexual. It peaked my interest, but I was quite smitten with my girlfriend, so it did nothing more than that. Since the friend had been out of highschool I hadn't seen her in a while, but we started talking again on a coincidence. And I did find myself interested in the friend, but we were both taken. She became single and we sort of hit around the idea of dating after my girlfriend left for boot camp in june, since we weren't staying together.

I found it a lot more difficult to deal with my girlfriend leaving than I had intended, even though she made me really angry before she left by ditching my graduation party to go have sex with some a*****e. I didn't want to leave my room for a few weeks. But I did, I forced myself out. And the friend has been hanging out with me.

She asked me out on monday- which was three weeks after the first girlfriend left, it wasn't like immediate. And I said yes because I do like her and she's really sweet and nice and all that. But I'm realizing it's just because I don't want to disappoint her and I want to get the ******** over this first girlfriend and stop thinking about her. But the friend, who is now my girlfriend, likes me WAAAY more than I like her, and that kind of freaks me out. Because already she wants to be with me like all the time, and I want to see my friends too before I go to college and she's always sending me sappy texts and I just feel like I can't keep up with it because even though it would be better to like her more, I just don't. I'm still down over the break up.

I want some advice guyzz.

[StellCrystall]

The relationship is very recent.
I know how it feels to still be holding on to an ex a bit.
Give it time though, since you guys just hooked up.
Give her a chance, too, and let her into your heart.
She may just be the right one, ye know?
And if necessary, just bring her out with your friends. And then explain that on certain days you'd like to be with just them. If she loves you that much, then she'll understand.
=]

[I feel you in my heart]

StellCrystall

The relationship is very recent.
I know how it feels to still be holding on to an ex a bit.
Give it time though, since you guys just hooked up.
Give her a chance, too, and let her into your heart.
She may just be the right one, ye know?
And if necessary, just bring her out with your friends. And then explain that on certain days you'd like to be with just them. If she loves you that much, then she'll understand.
=]

I've been thinking I need to give it time and see what happens but at the same time, I'm leaving really soon. Like in less than two months.. I've already talked to her about that and explained that I can't have another reason to miss this town. It's possible she will be the right one and if that's the case I would come back to her later on, it just feels fruitless to let her into my heart. I'm not even sure how to do that.

[StellCrystall]

It just happens. As long as you give them a chance, they might find a spot into your heart naturally. Like I said; you just got into a relationship. It takes time and effort to see if it's worth it.

[I feel you in my heart]

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[StellCrystall]

wahmbulance wahmbulance so you dont know what to do. its simple talk to her and let her know what your thinking.comunaction is important in a relationship. if need be take a break and find yourself and your feelings. you have to know what you want in life and be on a solid ground before you take the wrong path in life.take it from someone who has had to do it alot in life. wahmbulance wahmbulance

-Brought to you by burnthepriestalive, Stell's boyfriend. <3

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