Ill Kitten
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- Posted: Tue, 17 Mar 2015 19:10:46 +0000
Hey everyone, I have a few questions I was hoping people could help me out with.
I've been in a relationship for 8 months now and we have been sexually active.
I do enjoy being sexual, but I am not comfortable with talking dirty, initiating, being
the center of the attention. If we are engaged, I do not like him looking me in the eyes.
This is sad to me, because I know that it would make it more of a connection,
but I just get embarrassed with myself. I just don't want to be looked at.
Is this due to insecurities or am I not comfortable sexually?
How can I be more comfortable with myself and sexuality?
I've been in a relationship for 8 months now and we have been sexually active.
I do enjoy being sexual, but I am not comfortable with talking dirty, initiating, being
the center of the attention. If we are engaged, I do not like him looking me in the eyes.
This is sad to me, because I know that it would make it more of a connection,
but I just get embarrassed with myself. I just don't want to be looked at.
Is this due to insecurities or am I not comfortable sexually?
How can I be more comfortable with myself and sexuality?
Update:
I'd like to thank everyone thus far for their input.
I'm going to try to get to know myself/body better and appreciate what I have.
He's with me for a reason and wouldn't compliment me if he didn't believe it.
I'll try not to think so much about it because there aren't really guidelines to sex.
yum_puddi
I'd like to thank everyone thus far for their input.
I'm going to try to get to know myself/body better and appreciate what I have.
He's with me for a reason and wouldn't compliment me if he didn't believe it.
I'll try not to think so much about it because there aren't really guidelines to sex.
yum_puddi
SIDENOTE: My boyfriend is amazing to me and only tries to build my self-esteem.
He has me convinced he loves my body, but yet I still push him away.