My stepfather had FASD (I say had because he is no longer part of the family) and was perfectly capable in his writing, he suffered badly elsewhere though. Its a spectrum disorder and everyone with it is affected differently, regardless of what you've seen. However I have my doubts, my mom likes to say things like that for attention so we don't know if she actually did drink or not when she was pregnant with me but he wants to do the testing anyway just to be sure (she was an alcoholic before and after she had me for quite a few years so he thinks its likely that she did) since I do show other signs that are common with it that have more to do with the nervous system and social and behavioral issues, along with my delayed development as a child.
It probably helps that I've spent a lot of years writing for myself like he did. It was always an easy way to express myself, though I feel like I try too hard and over-compensate and end up coming off as too proper since I actually talk like some sort of hick.
I am aware that everyone learns differently but there is something in my brain that just doesn't function as it should. Learning something visually vs hands on vs auditory doesn't make a difference, everything just seems overly complicated and I can't grasp the basic concepts and I get overwhelmed with stuff that should be really easy for me. Its incredibly frustrating. I can care deeply on a topic I find extremely interesting and I still just can't seem to take in the information I need. For example they spent 4 months trying to teach me how to tell time on an analog clock and I really wanted to because everyone else my age could, but at 25 years old I still can't because I just don't understand it. People saying I'm bored or not interested is the reason I never got any actual help until now. I might as well just be certified stupid for all it ******** matters.
No, they probably wouldn't have "been so quick to slap a label on it" 20 years ago, and it's the reason I didn't get any ******** help 20 years ago because they didn't understand it as well. I am not just bored or uninterested, and making something more challenging because you think I am simply just bored is not going to solve the problem, I can assure you that. I can read something, or watch something, or listen to something and to my senses it's clear, but it's like there's a cloud around my brain and I can't make sense of a lot of things because the information doesn't get through.
Its responses like this that make me terrified of what people are going to think and say if I take the help that's being offered to me.