starsparkling
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- Posted: Sat, 05 May 2012 14:40:58 +0000
In the past weeks, I've been trying to get close to my crush.
I confirmed that I officially scared the hell out of him when I finally got the courage to add him on Facebook and he completely ignored it. Not to be a stalker but to make sure I wasn't being paranoid I saw that he has had activity and saw my friend request and ignored it.
At school, I feel like he's been intentionally not hanging out with his friends because I'm friends with them. So there's this system kinda, where he can hang out with one group and this other group. And whenever I'm with one group, he's at the other, and so on. At first I thought it was just coincidence but now I'm convinced.
Also, I have a feeling he knows that I like him because everyone is being so freaking painfully obvious about it.
One friend of mine, jumps at every opportunity to say hi to him JUST BECAUSE I'M THERE.
Yesterday their conversation went like this.
My friend: "HIII!"
Him: "Hi!"
My friend: "(me) is good today!!"
WHAT. First of all, he didn't even ask what I was doing. What was even more embarrassing is that I was right there and I could've talked to him myself, and I couldn't look at them so I just turned away. I wish I saw his reaction. Oh well, it was probably a bad one.
Also, his friends totally want us together so they said they would help me. According to them they would talk to him last night, so I guess it can't be more obvious now.
So yeah, my friends are just calling me paranoid, but I think not at this point.
Am I being paranoid? (keep pursuing!) Should I officially just back the hell up and leave him alone? (move on.....)
I confirmed that I officially scared the hell out of him when I finally got the courage to add him on Facebook and he completely ignored it. Not to be a stalker but to make sure I wasn't being paranoid I saw that he has had activity and saw my friend request and ignored it.
At school, I feel like he's been intentionally not hanging out with his friends because I'm friends with them. So there's this system kinda, where he can hang out with one group and this other group. And whenever I'm with one group, he's at the other, and so on. At first I thought it was just coincidence but now I'm convinced.
Also, I have a feeling he knows that I like him because everyone is being so freaking painfully obvious about it.
One friend of mine, jumps at every opportunity to say hi to him JUST BECAUSE I'M THERE.
Yesterday their conversation went like this.
My friend: "HIII!"
Him: "Hi!"
My friend: "(me) is good today!!"
WHAT. First of all, he didn't even ask what I was doing. What was even more embarrassing is that I was right there and I could've talked to him myself, and I couldn't look at them so I just turned away. I wish I saw his reaction. Oh well, it was probably a bad one.
Also, his friends totally want us together so they said they would help me. According to them they would talk to him last night, so I guess it can't be more obvious now.
So yeah, my friends are just calling me paranoid, but I think not at this point.
Am I being paranoid? (keep pursuing!) Should I officially just back the hell up and leave him alone? (move on.....)