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I can't honestly say. I think I'd consider adoption first. |
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I would abort if I made that thing on my wedding night under a starlit sky with romantic music in the background and a million dollars in my D&G clutch. I do not ever want to have children.
You do what you need to do, and never mind what anyone else would do or cares to think about it. |
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If you're so worried about the pill not working than go get another form of abortion. You can't afford it one on your own, then go to a woman's clinic they would more than likely help with it.
As for you not wanting the kid because it being born from rape, is totally understandable.. it would be hard. But I think that if you did decide to keep it, it seems like you would take the responsibility of a mother and make sure you could feed the child and give it a good life. Being a lesbian isn't an excuse to not be a mother and asking if it would be acceptable for you to raise a child because your sexual preference is just plain ridiculous. There's plenty of lesbian woman and couples that would kill to be a parent and do make good ones. You're sexual preference shouldn't be an excuse to be a bad parent. Had to get that out of my system. Anyways. Like I said, if the pill fails and it's not to late then get another form of abortion done if you feel that's the right thing to do. |
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Well, considering your economic status and where the 'child' came from, if worst comes to worst, go for the abortion. Never let anyone tell you to get an abortion because you're a lesbian, though. Lesbians are just as, if not more capable of mothering a child than most people nowadays.
Hope the best for you, and sorry about what happened. |
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froggymama89 Harlequin_Dust froggymama89 Harlequin_Dust Did the baby rape you? ....is that a 'No'? Why does the baby have to pay for what some shitbag did? Abortion is wrong and it's murder. You may not want it or you can't affort it, BUT someone who can't have a baby would love and care for it. I am Pro-Life because I'm againt murder. They baby will never have a chance to live because of what some rapist did? How does that work? I'm sorry, but I just don't understand how ANYONE can be pro-choice. IT'S NOT YOUR BODY! It's the baby's body. It's the baby's body that you're ripping out and cutting into pieces or burning. It's the baby's life you're taking away before it even had a chance to see the world. Have you ever been raped? But you don't know. Until your raped and can honestly say you could live through 9 months of daily reminder you can't say. I used to be pro-life but then I went through just that and nearly killed myself. I know that if I was pregnant I would have committed suicide if I couldn't abort. you can act all holier than though all you want but until you go through that or until you are told you are tubal and there is an 85% chance you will die shut your hole because you know nothing. |
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Harlequin_Dust froggymama89 Harlequin_Dust froggymama89 Harlequin_Dust Did the baby rape you? ....is that a 'No'? Why does the baby have to pay for what some shitbag did? Abortion is wrong and it's murder. You may not want it or you can't affort it, BUT someone who can't have a baby would love and care for it. I am Pro-Life because I'm againt murder. They baby will never have a chance to live because of what some rapist did? How does that work? I'm sorry, but I just don't understand how ANYONE can be pro-choice. IT'S NOT YOUR BODY! It's the baby's body. It's the baby's body that you're ripping out and cutting into pieces or burning. It's the baby's life you're taking away before it even had a chance to see the world. Have you ever been raped? But you don't know. Until your raped and can honestly say you could live through 9 months of daily reminder you can't say. I used to be pro-life but then I went through just that and nearly killed myself. I know that if I was pregnant I would have committed suicide if I couldn't abort. you can act all holier than though all you want but until you go through that or until you are told you are tubal and there is an 85% chance you will die shut your hole because you know nothing. Don't mind me I've never been raped but my opinion matters because I'm an anti abortionist herp derp. |
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Here's my view on it:
For rape, abortion is your best friend. ^^ For those who are just stupid enough not to use protection... **** YOU!!! You were stupid enough not to use the protection, then your smart enought to take care of a kid. |
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I'm so sorry that happened to you.
If I had experienced what you had, and became pregnant, I would get an abortion as fast as possible. The thought of carrying a baby that was forced upon me makes me feel sick. Not to mention, I also cannot support a baby, financially and emotionally. It would not be wise to give birth to a baby that cannot be supported or put into adoption where there are so many children and babies that need homes already. It may just be wishful thinking, but I've heard that after a woman is raped, her body can go into a "shock" where all the sperm are rejected or her ovulation is delayed so the sperm just die. I wish you the best of luck. : ( |
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Harlequin_Dust I've read stories about girls getting raped and getting abortion. Most of them regret it. Please present your sources before making a claim like that. |
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Foetus Smasher Harlequin_Dust I've read stories about girls getting raped and getting abortion. Most of them regret it. Please present your sources before making a claim like that. http://www.abortionconcern.org/stories/index.php?storytype=rape I also remember reading something about it on MSN, but that was a few years ago and I doubt I could find the link. |
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xXBigBossSquidXx Harlequin_Dust froggymama89 Harlequin_Dust froggymama89 Harlequin_Dust Did the baby rape you? ....is that a 'No'? Why does the baby have to pay for what some shitbag did? Abortion is wrong and it's murder. You may not want it or you can't affort it, BUT someone who can't have a baby would love and care for it. I am Pro-Life because I'm againt murder. They baby will never have a chance to live because of what some rapist did? How does that work? I'm sorry, but I just don't understand how ANYONE can be pro-choice. IT'S NOT YOUR BODY! It's the baby's body. It's the baby's body that you're ripping out and cutting into pieces or burning. It's the baby's life you're taking away before it even had a chance to see the world. Have you ever been raped? But you don't know. Until your raped and can honestly say you could live through 9 months of daily reminder you can't say. I used to be pro-life but then I went through just that and nearly killed myself. I know that if I was pregnant I would have committed suicide if I couldn't abort. you can act all holier than though all you want but until you go through that or until you are told you are tubal and there is an 85% chance you will die shut your hole because you know nothing. Don't mind me I've never been raped but my opinion matters because I'm an anti abortionist herp derp. You can attack me all you want. I'm not going to change my opinion because I haven't been raped. That would be a stupid reason to change my opinion. Abortion is wrong, no matter what. By the way, have you ever heard of "Punctuation"? |
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I'm not coming back to this thread. The thread maker asked our opinions and I gave mine. Sorry it was different than yours heart . I don't know how I'll ever redeem myself, other than getting raped and killing something innocent. Then, I'll come back to you guys and admit you were all right and I'm will beg for your forgiveness
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I would abort, no doubts about it.
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