NEED HELP!! FRIEND AND CRUSH ISSUES-IZZLE

[Pankraz]

okay, so;

today in tennis class i was sitting down and my friend comes over and farts in my face. he's kind of an a*****e, and i've told him not to mess with me like that. so i hit his racket with my racket. i walk away and he hits me directly on the back. he had done this earlier in class, too, but with a tennis ball. i told him not to do it again. i started crying because i was embarrassed and it hurt pretty badly... i feel really ashamed of that now, i shouldn't have cried, but anyway...

i have a crush on this one girl in my grade, in this class. she saw the whole thing i don't want to seem like a wimp or anything, and i know how to fight, but i really don't want to do anything because i'm not like that. what should i do? should i just stop talking to him? i mean, my other friend there laughed when i cried (my best friend, too). i'm kind of shocked... how do i make everything right?

[Demi_Pam]

First, your friend is an a*****e, I'd seriously consider dumping his a**, he doesn't seem to respect you or your feelings and is causing others to mock you, thats not a friend, thats a bully.

Second, crying is NOT a shameful thing, we all have emotions, you cried because of the shock of being hurt, its nothing to be ashamed of.
If the girl you like thinks less of you because you feel emotions she needs a reality check, the hard man stereotype who never cries are usually boring jackasses with little to no brain power and over inflated egos.

I'd recommend talking to the girl, find a common ground (movie you've both seen, book you've both read, teacher you both think is a pillock) and strike up a conversation.

You can't make people forget what happened but you can be the bigger man and ignore any teasing, its not big and brave to fight, its childish and immature, the bigger man walks away and keeps his temper...kick a few walls later on but losing your temper will only lead to trouble.

Demi_Pam

[Pankraz]

Demi_Pam

First, your friend is an a*****e, I'd seriously consider dumping his a**, he doesn't seem to respect you or your feelings and is causing others to mock you, thats not a friend, thats a bully.

Second, crying is NOT a shameful thing, we all have emotions, you cried because of the shock of being hurt, its nothing to be ashamed of.
If the girl you like thinks less of you because you feel emotions she needs a reality check, the hard man stereotype who never cries are usually boring jackasses with little to no brain power and over inflated egos.

I'd recommend talking to the girl, find a common ground (movie you've both seen, book you've both read, teacher you both think is a pillock) and strike up a conversation.

You can't make people forget what happened but you can be the bigger man and ignore any teasing, its not big and brave to fight, its childish and immature, the bigger man walks away and keeps his temper...kick a few walls later on but losing your temper will only lead to trouble.

Demi_Pam

thank you for taking the time to reply..

we have found a common ground... but she likes a different type of guy than i do..(emo guys)

[3tron]

women like it when you are the better man. Ignore him and pursue her. He only does it because he knows it makes you mad. Trust me school is like that.

[Demi_Pam]

Sometimes we like people who don't like us back, it sucks but that's life, its good that you've actually talked to her, at least you've made a friend.

Good luck.

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