My mom has cancer.

[Kaze v2]

I was browsing at Walmart today. As any normal college student would, I called my house and asked my dad for money and asked how my mom was. She has had breast cancer since I was in fifth grade. I never really thought anything about it until this year.

So I called home and my dad transferred some money into my account and said that the last little surgery my mom had for her constant stomach pains didn't work. She has had three of those now and none of them did anything. So she is at home, downing pain pills and being fed through an IV. This is the first time I've ever had the feeling that she might be leaving soon. A long time ago when she was really feeling bad and we were in some money trouble, she told me that they thought her life insurance would pay for college. I thought she was joking until now. I'm truly frightened about what is happening.

I don't know what I'm supposed to do. My girlfriend keeps telling my to spill my feelings, but I'm not sad, mad, or happy. Nothing has happened yet, so I don't have a reason to be sad. My roommate is out for the weekend, so my girlfriend is going to stay the night to keep me company, but really, LI, what the ******** am I supposed to do?

[wtf is a username]

If she does die, god forbid, then you probably will feel sadness.
My friends mom died last year, and he knew she was gonna die, but when it happened, he cried still. I think that the news won't make you cry, but when it actually happens, you might break down. But take solace in the fact that if she does die, she won't suffer the pain of cancer anymore. ((Im not even trying to be an a*****e)).

[Lady Nami Nadeshiko]

Well, I know how hard it is to deal with cancer. My mother had cancer from 2007 to 2009. All, I'm going to say is on what you can do is spend time with your mother. I know this won't help but when my mother died. I was just in shock at the time. I didn't start crying really until I called my boyfriend. God forbid if your mom goes but you'll probably be really upset. I'm trying not to be mean or make you feel sad. But if you need someone to talk to you can message me if you like.

[Rain_Godess]

Okay. First: Spend as much time as you can with your mom and make her happy. Second: Try to stay on the positive side of things. Thinking things like "Maybe she'll survive it." or somethin' like that. Third: If she doesn't survive, then you'll know she's in a better place and that she's not suffering anymore. You'll definately be sad, but again, think of the positives.

[wtf is a username]

On the Death Spiral

wtf is a username

If she does die, god forbid, then you probably will feel sadness.

When people die people often feel sad holy s**t you're some sort of insightful genius. rolleyes

Are you trying to mock me? I don't see why. I haven't said one negative thing about you dude.

[Tessafreakbetch]

On the Death Spiral

Kaze v2

She has had breast cancer since I was in fifth grade. I never really thought anything about it until this year.

What the ********.

Kaze v2

what the ******** am I supposed to do?

Spend time with your mother. rolleyes


To reiterate though what the ******** you didn't really think about your mother having cancer? What were you thinking, that it was just a little bit of cancer no biggie they cure that s**t all the time?

You don't need to be an a*****e.

Because often if found in the early stages, cancer is highly treatable.
And when someone you love has cancer, but isn't physically sick, it's easy to forget.


I would suggest you just spend time with your mom while you can.
And try not to worry too much.
She may die, but it's out of your control.

[Kaze v2]

On the Death Spiral

Kaze v2

She has had breast cancer since I was in fifth grade. I never really thought anything about it until this year.

What the ********.

Kaze v2

what the ******** am I supposed to do?

Spend time with your mother. rolleyes


To reiterate though what the ******** you didn't really think about your mother having cancer? What were you thinking, that it was just a little bit of cancer no biggie they cure that s**t all the time?

Go troll elsewhere, f*****t.

[BlissanyxXoGrace]

I would sit and spend time with your Mom Build Memories with her. And lets not jump to conclusions that shes going to die. Nobody wants to think that such a thing will happen and if you put it in your moind its going to make you sad and your gonna breakdown but you dont want that to happen because your Mom dosent want to see that happen to you. Maybe you can do those Cancer Three Day Walks....? (I know stupid awnser how is that gonna help me LEAVE NOW XD) Im sure your Mom has many Memories she wants to share with you visit her more often maybe....? Im sure it would just make her happy to see your face. And i understand about your emotions You cant spill your feelings if your not feeling any but i agree with you girlfriends but spill your feelings when you feel them. I hope this will help you in the future. And if it dosent Im sorry T^T