My gfs family hates me...

[Naexiac-one]

iMight69You

Mmmm lets see...
i took her virginity
broke someones jaw for stealing her from me
im black
3years into our relationship she cheated on me and i wrote "******** you b***h" across her deceased brothers jacket
and then there was the time her mom was talkin s**t to me and called me a ******** a drug addict and i told her she was a ******** meth junkie who sleeps with her dealer, bcus her mom used to smoke meth, A LOT.

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I wouldn't like you too if you were dating my daughter. Parent's want what's best for their kids, and if they don't think you're best then there isn't much you can do about it. You aren't the first person in the world to have to go through this. It happens all the time.

[Naexiac-one]

Tzagnos Zorba

Your Akina

I think you've got some other serious problems to look into besides your girlfriend's family disliking you.

I think she summed it up above. Seriously - after reading what you wrote I can understand her family hating you. Have you considered that this girl is probably better off with someone else? First off you broke someone's jaw for stealing her from you... unless they physically kidnapped her it's impossible to "steal" someone from you - if she cheated on you with that person then she's as much to blame as that other guy was. You ruined her deceased brothers jacket?... and is there some reason you blame her deceased brother or her family or did you just do that because you were mad in general and have no self control? You get in arguements with and are disrespectful to her mom and apparently from the jacket incident the whole family. These aren't the actions of a mature man but of a raging little boy throwing a temper trantrum. And now because she says they hate you, you're considering dumping her. If you loved her you wouldn't even be considering that and I think in all honesty you'd treat her better. You sound like you're talking about property instead of a person and it sounds like you need some serious anger managment classes. This isn't meant to be a personal attack but maybe to offer you an alternate view as to how your behavior may be a legitimate reason for them to dislike you and if you change your temper throwing and poor behavior then they wouldn't have any reason to "hate" you. She may be your girlfriend now... but she'll be their daughter forever and they are going to feel protective of her as long you have the behavior patterns of a hoodlum.

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This forum is practically closed now. Thank you for taking the time to say everything necessary that we were all thinking but too lazy to write about.

[Xardk_Of_The_Dark]

iMight69You

Mmmm lets see...
i took her virginity
broke someones jaw for stealing her from me
im black
3years into our relationship she cheated on me and i wrote "******** you b***h" across her deceased brothers jacket
and then there was the time her mom was talkin s**t to me and called me a ******** a drug addict and i told her she was a ******** meth junkie who sleeps with her dealer, bcus her mom used to smoke meth, A LOT....

So, the girlfriend said:

This Bro's Girlfriend

But I love you and that's all that matters.

Honestly, ******** 'em. You're black, right? Then keep on truckin'. Haters gon' hate, amirite?

[OMG Whoops]

Naexiac-one

Tzagnos Zorba

Your Akina

I think you've got some other serious problems to look into besides your girlfriend's family disliking you.

I think she summed it up above. Seriously - after reading what you wrote I can understand her family hating you. Have you considered that this girl is probably better off with someone else? First off you broke someone's jaw for stealing her from you... unless they physically kidnapped her it's impossible to "steal" someone from you - if she cheated on you with that person then she's as much to blame as that other guy was. You ruined her deceased brothers jacket?... and is there some reason you blame her deceased brother or her family or did you just do that because you were mad in general and have no self control? You get in arguements with and are disrespectful to her mom and apparently from the jacket incident the whole family. These aren't the actions of a mature man but of a raging little boy throwing a temper trantrum. And now because she says they hate you, you're considering dumping her. If you loved her you wouldn't even be considering that and I think in all honesty you'd treat her better. You sound like you're talking about property instead of a person and it sounds like you need some serious anger managment classes. This isn't meant to be a personal attack but maybe to offer you an alternate view as to how your behavior may be a legitimate reason for them to dislike you and if you change your temper throwing and poor behavior then they wouldn't have any reason to "hate" you. She may be your girlfriend now... but she'll be their daughter forever and they are going to feel protective of her as long you have the behavior patterns of a hoodlum.

this this this this this this this this this this this this this this this this this this this .
This forum is practically closed now. Thank you for taking the time to say everything necessary that we were all thinking but too lazy to write about.

[Immortality by Harlot]

iMight69You

so ive been with my gf for three years and im jus now finding out that her WHOLE family hates me and doesnt want us together. And that makes me uncomfortable as ********...
So i dont know what to do, well actually i do im considering breaking up with her. i mean i cant make them like me and i was under the impression that they did, but no, they hate me.
What do you think? Any advice or comments are appreciated.

You cannot make them like you, nor can she. If you love this girl, stay with her, if they still do not like you, later on down the road, then you are really no worse off, and if they end up at least respecting you, then you have gained some ground even then. They may just be protective over her

[zoe_owen1]

if your seriously considering breaking up with her just coz tey dont like you then maybie she would be better off. i dn if that sounds abit harsh but thats a nasty reasn to dump someone my bfs family dnt like me either

[Polina Oksana]

iMight69You

Mmmm lets see...
i took her virginity
broke someones jaw for stealing her from me
im black
3years into our relationship she cheated on me and i wrote "******** you b***h" across her deceased brothers jacket
and then there was the time her mom was talkin s**t to me and called me a ******** a drug addict and i told her she was a ******** meth junkie who sleeps with her dealer, bcus her mom used to smoke meth, A LOT.

From reading this alone, it sounds like you should break up with her anyway because it doesn't seem like she cares much about you if someone can 'steal' her from you and she cheats on you, and who on earth would want their possible future in-laws to be racist? It also sounds like you have some maturing to do and should look into anger management.