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When's the last time he's received these pics that you know of?
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I'm not entirely sure what to suggest on this tbh sweatdrop But asking girls on MSN for naked pictures of themselves is going waaay beyond the line. I think you should sit down with him and tell him how much this is hurting you, and destroying your self-esteem.
To me this sounds kinda like cheating, but I'm not too sure if anyone would class it as that. But the way you've put it sounds like he's bored of you, which I'm sorry to say. If he really wants this relationship to work and to last then he's going to have to buck up his idea's and actually think of your feelings for a change, and delete all the pictures he's got and not ask girls for anymore. As for the threat of him killing himself if you leave, then I'm afraid that's emotional abuse, that's a pathetic and selfish way of trying to get someone to stay with you. If he's done it three times, then I fail to see why you're still with him, you can do way better than him. To me, it sounds like he's not taking your feelings into consideration, so you may be better off without him. |
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Gabbie808 When's the last time he's received these pics that you know of? |
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Isurugi Noe Generally from all the replies I've got, this is obviously unacceptable. D: yes I am the type that doesn't like him looking at porn. Maybe it wouldn't bother me as much if he wasn't specifically looking at one race that I'm not. and he prefers amateur porn cause they're more "real". the last time he asked a girl for naked pictures was before we got together. so I'm not sure if I let it slide because it hasn't happened in so long and only once or not? it seems like I'm an idiot for even still being with him though sweatdrop Has this happened since or not cuz it seems relevant. If it hasn't certainly happened since, that pretty much means you're leaving him for watching porn right?? EDIT: You prolly should have mentioned this in the original post cause, it kinda changes the circumstances. That is, if you both decided to get over that situation. EDIT EDIT: s**t this happened recently, so yea leave him. I thought we were talkin about a year ago b4 you guys got together. |
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ll iBazill ll Milk Cherry Ask other guys on MSN for nude pictures. Save them. When he goes "What's the deal?" You can be like, "just doing what you do to me. See, you don't like it either." Then, "Either you stop it completely, or I'm gone." Though honestly, you should just dump him. If he wants to look at something different each and every night, then he shouldn't be in a relationship with you. Not to mention constant relapse, he's lying. Lose the loser. This. God, I wish I was this good at getting the point across. All I ever do is give some useless life experience, which no one ever listens to. ^^;; |
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