- Posted: Mon, 18 Oct 2010 08:01:03 +0000
So let me start by introducing myself and my boyfriend and give you a little background info. I'm Sidney, I'm 15. My boyfriend, Yanni, is also 15 but is 4 days older than me. I have known him since the 5th grade where we went to the same school and were great friends but never really that close. He had moved to Independent Study in the 7th grade where we lost contact. However, in late December of 2009, our Freshman year of high school, we regained contact via MySpace. He started coming over a lot and I started to like him a lot. He confessed his love for me in April 2010. He told me he had loved me since he first laid eyes on me. He asked me out on July 16th, 2010. I said yes. We have been dating exactly 3 months and 2 days. I had a past love interest, but nothing ever became of it besides a few depressing poems and a broken heart. We never dated or did anything. I got over it around January 2010. I had written one of the poems upon my wall awhile back and when Yanni came over, he read it and was curious about who broke my heart. I told him it didn't really matter because it wasn't broken anymore, but he was persistent. I told him about 3 weeks ago the whole story but reassured him that it was nothing but an old fling. A few weeks before that he had been getting text messages from a girl named Kassandra saying that she loved him and such things one should not say to a taken boy. I became quizzical but said nothing on the matter besides telling her that he was taken and should keep her feelings to herself if that would be fine with her with Yanni's consent. She complied for the time I was there, but I am not sure if she took my advice. My boyfriend won't let me see his phone anymore and has been moody and distant with me the past 3 weeks. I am starting to worry about whether or not something is going on. I don't know if it has to do with my telling him of my past, or this girl. I am at a loss of what to do. I try to be happy but we always end up snapping at each other. I need advice on what to do. Should I just end the relationship or try to stick it out? Is there anything I can do to try and get him to talk about it? I have tried asking him and he just says there's nothing wrong.