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My boyfriend lately has been eager to get in contact with me (there's a pic of me and him on my profile). He pulls me into his lap and hugs me a lot, and kisses me more now. One time we were in my bedroom and my best friend went to the bathroom and he crawled on me and started kissing me. He has always been affectionate, but not this much. I was at a football game in my cheerleading uniform and he is very attracted to me in it, as in he touched my legs. His best friend says he talks about more often now, and I wonder why. What do you think is going on? What's with the bursts of affection? And no, he hasn't cheated on me before.
Maybe he just wants things to become more physical between the two of you. Like he wants to 'take it to the next level', whatever that may be.

I'd take it as a good thing, as long as you are comfortable with his advances.
I've never thought of that... sweatdrop
maybe he wants to be a better boyfriend. so he;s showing that he wants you or something. i don't see anything wrong with it. i wish all the boyfriends i use to have was like that
How old are you?

Because if he's young, maybe he's just realised he really likes female bodies razz

Nah, in seriousness, he could be trying to move things on to another level, or maybe he's just become more attracted to you? Not because you've changed physically or anything, but you tend to find that the more someone likes you (or vice versa), the more attractive they find you. Which is definitely a good sign, right?

It's no big deal as long as you're alright with it.
Ahaa. Maybe confused
But he is very close to countless girls and lately my BFF has been talking about him a lot, too. She told me that she likes him and I saw her in the hallway talking and they were making contact (her hand was on his arm) and she had on a flirty look but dropped it when she saw me...do you think maybe he was feeling guilty when he was flirting with her? If he was, that is.

Yeah, I'm 16. lol xp
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Answering your question, no, I do not think he feels guitly because he hasnt done anything wrong.

Im going with everyone else, i think that this guy either wants to make your relationship more physical or that maybe your relationship to him has deepened alot more to a deep love to him.

Keep an eye on your friend. She sounds like she might be up to something.
Also, maybe your boyfriend is showing you off and showing the public that your his as a way of maybe showing this friend of yours that he's happily taken and not interested in her advances.
I know my boyfriend does that when some guy trys to advance onto me. Its a way couples sometimes 'mark their territory' to others and he might be doing that to you.

In all honesty I wouldnt worry about it what so ever. Infact, id take advantage of all the snuggles and loving your getting and be happy with it C:

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