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Mate, it's hard enough to get a girl who is single to notice and like you. Trying to get a girl who is madly in love with another guy isn't going to work. Put yourself in his shoes. Would you like someone else hitting on your girlfriend and her running off with them?

If you really love her, then you'll want nothing more then for her to be happy.
if you force her to be with you, she wont be happy, and it wont make you happy either. leave her alone and let her be happy with the other guy. if it was meant to be, she want to be with you over anyone else.

from the sound of it, your still young and are probably just having depression due to hormones like every other teenager. just keep your head up, youll eventually get over her and will find someone else.
well im sorry for you...
Nobuo_Uematsu_fairy
Move on, she's not interested. you'll find another girl you like; you're young and have plenty of time.

Amen.

Unfortunately, love sometimes doesn't work the way we want it. Don't try to force her to like you, cause then she'll be confused and won't know who to choose. But you'll get over her eventually, in the meantime, make yourself available or do something to keep yourself from thinking about it. But don't do anything that'll cause you to hurt yourself. Try listening to some upbeat music or writing.

Just do SOMETHING, but nothing too drastic. Like I said, you'll get over it eventually. Live your life.
Don't rip two people who love each other apart?

It's rather simple.

Don't go ruining two people's happiness just because you THINK (operative word, here) it will bring YOU happiness.
You'll find someone who will make you happy eventually. Move on with your life and you'll find her.
Well the girl doesn't want me to give up on her. She said she'll like me if I stop being emo. but I can only stop being emo if she likes me.
don't put on a mask to hide who u are, but try and be strong. Be happy for her. . .wait for her.
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Dude.
If she likes her boyfriend, then there's nothing you can do about it.
Just move on.
Like what other people have already said, if she does like you, she'll come to you.
If not, you've just saved yourself a lot of heartache and tears and you might be able to be good friends with her again in the future.
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AmyCantFlyy
Well the girl doesn't want me to give up on her. She said she'll like me if I stop being emo. but I can only stop being emo if she likes me.


It doesn't mean she's interested in you.
Don't read too far into things.

Just let her be.
She's slowly starting to unlike her boyfriend. But her boyfriend gave her a necklace, a plaque, and a picture of him and her. I don't know what to do *banging head on wall*

She also said she'll like me if I stop being emo. I said "I'll stop being emo once you like me."
GAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH I'm slowly dieing and my pain hurts I can't stand this pain! Dammit!
How can I heal my painful life...

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