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Post: 56242809_1 created on Sun Nov 15, 2009 2:20 pmPosted: Sun Nov 15, 2009 2:20 pm
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So My boyfriend had been spending time with his ex again recently. some back ground on her is that theyve known eachother since freshman year. Freashman year was a hard time for him. She helped him through. They got into a relationship. It was on and off for a reason James didn't know at the time. So finally sophmore year, hes tired of dealing with the on off and Cathy had her eye on someone else. So, they agreed to seperate and follow their hearts. James to me and Cathy (his ex) to Jake. Since then both me and James, and Cathy and Jake have had amazing relationships. Theyve Had their ups and downs, but were so in love. Since then James never talked to cathy after that because of all the mean things she did to him during the relationship. So now, James and Cathy are trying to play nice and be friends. Before they hung out he was grounded for 3 weeks, I missed him and even though I'd seen him on tuesday I wanted to spentd wednesday with him. But he refused cause he was hanging with Cathy. From the begining I knew somthign didn't feel right. I told Cathy it upset me that they were texting eachother constantly and when they did hang out Cathy pretty much told me she was going to hang out with my boyfriend and there is NOTHING I could do about it. Things just got worse from there. Me and Cathy ended up hating eachother and digging in eachothers pasts. She said things that made me cry. James say I was upset but never told Cathy off. So last night. Me and Cathy were at eachothers throats. She never wanted to see me again and yelled about how I don't know or love james at all after the 14 months I've spent with him. I call James for suport. Asking what I should do. Don't get me wrong I'm strong enough to fight my own battles but I wanted to know what he thought of the whole situation. He ends up telling em the worst news ever... He tells me that after spending time with cathy again he realized he loves both of us... After all the horrible things Cathys done to him. And after how hard I tried to show my love for him ... He still loves her. He reasured me nothing would come of it. That he wouldn't break up with me for her and that if he had to choose hed choose me anyday... but what do I do? I love James so much and I'm going to try my best for this to work. I came up wiht a plan. Today I'm going to see him, so i thought I'd tell him, "James, I know you love me, but everything is so confusing right now. I want things to be right again. James, I'm sorry but your gonna have to prove. your gonna have to prove to me you still love me more then her. I want you to do the most romantic thing you could possibly do." Sounds weird I know... But I litteraly have nothign left... I've already tried EVERYTHING to show him how much I love him. It's up to him now. So, advice needed, I know its a long post. But What should I do? What do you think of the situation? I need some help ... |
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