BuddhaPanties
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- Posted: Wed, 24 Sep 2014 21:45:51 +0000
Long Story short:
I've liked a guy online for over three years now and he knows. He's even said he wishes I lived closer to him. He's a nice and there's a strong connection between us. We talk all the time; joke around, sometimes we talk serious business in our life and all that jazz. But since he was taken we didn't move any further with any of this. We just continued to talk.
I felt like I had to move on. So I tried, and after a couple of months of trying to find someone a friend of mine asked me out. It's been two months with my friend, and I'm happy but I feel like I not only forced the issue with my friend, but I forced it on myself as a way to get over the guy online.
The boyfriend is a good person, and he's compassionate to my ******** up-ness (a lot of bad history on my part), and though we have a connection; it's nothing like with the guy online.
Well, those feelings have never gone away and the online guy knows this, but the boyfriend doesn't. I feel really terrible about this, and I'm scared of hurting the boyfriend and especially don't want to lose the friendship I have with the boyfriend.
I don't want to be alone, and I'm afraid I will be again; especially if I break it off with the boyfriend and find out the guy online is either still in a relationship or is about to start a new one.
So, I don't know what to do.
Stick with the boyfriend that I have little connection with and who doesn't like to talk about intimate things very much, Or go further with the online guy and MAYBE start a long distant relationship -- if I can.
******** I feel like a terrible person. T^T
I've liked a guy online for over three years now and he knows. He's even said he wishes I lived closer to him. He's a nice and there's a strong connection between us. We talk all the time; joke around, sometimes we talk serious business in our life and all that jazz. But since he was taken we didn't move any further with any of this. We just continued to talk.
I felt like I had to move on. So I tried, and after a couple of months of trying to find someone a friend of mine asked me out. It's been two months with my friend, and I'm happy but I feel like I not only forced the issue with my friend, but I forced it on myself as a way to get over the guy online.
The boyfriend is a good person, and he's compassionate to my ******** up-ness (a lot of bad history on my part), and though we have a connection; it's nothing like with the guy online.
Well, those feelings have never gone away and the online guy knows this, but the boyfriend doesn't. I feel really terrible about this, and I'm scared of hurting the boyfriend and especially don't want to lose the friendship I have with the boyfriend.
I don't want to be alone, and I'm afraid I will be again; especially if I break it off with the boyfriend and find out the guy online is either still in a relationship or is about to start a new one.
So, I don't know what to do.
Stick with the boyfriend that I have little connection with and who doesn't like to talk about intimate things very much, Or go further with the online guy and MAYBE start a long distant relationship -- if I can.
******** I feel like a terrible person. T^T