Long Distance Relationship help please?

[Teh Quiouii]

Coincedently, I just met my man of over a year for the very first time this weekend. It seems so strange, how we can be so nervous about meeting these people we know more deeply about than a lot of others who associate with each other physically on a daily basis. But the anxiousness is still there. It's alright. Embrace that excitement- chances are, he's just as nervous as you are.

I remember going to pick him up at the bus station, standing in front and feeling as if I was going to vomit. I couldn't find him, and I began to worry that, despite everything, despite the pictures, the endless daily phone conversations, the silly webcam sessions, I wouldn't recognize him. The panic escalated. We called each other, found out that the buses drop off and pick up passengers at different blocks, and, well. I turned a corner, and there he was, just at the other side of the street, waiting for the light to turn green so he could cross. It seemed ridiculous that I would think that I wouldn't recognize him. That was the longest red light of my life! And then.. the longest, most lovely embrace of my life.

Yes, we were both nervous, we were both awkward; but in that moment all of that was deemed irrelevant. This was the person I've known and loved over unattainable distances. Distances now closed, completed, overcome.

What a feeling. Elation? Perfection? Pure, unfiltered contentedness? I can't describe it. It sounds awfully cliche, though. razz

So, maybe an interpretation of someone in much the same situation will help reassure you. You know you love him, and that he loves you, right? That mutuality is all that matters. What's important now is really, truly embracing the time you are able to be with him, and appreciating those amazing technological powers that have allowed you to connect so.

You have him for two weeks, you lucky duck. I only had mine for three days. But, god, did I love each and every minute of them.

So, with this, I wish you luck and love and offer a kindred sort of reassurance and hope.

[shezu]

just rush in for a hug and hold his hand ur nervous feelings will go away.

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Teh Quiouii

Coincedently, I just met my man of over a year for the very first time this weekend. It seems so strange, how we can be so nervous about meeting these people we know more deeply about than a lot of others who associate with each other physically on a daily basis. But the anxiousness is still there. It's alright. Embrace that excitement- chances are, he's just as nervous as you are.

I remember going to pick him up at the bus station, standing in front and feeling as if I was going to vomit. I couldn't find him, and I began to worry that, despite everything, despite the pictures, the endless daily phone conversations, the silly webcam sessions, I wouldn't recognize him. The panic escalated. We called each other, found out that the buses drop off and pick up passengers at different blocks, and, well. I turned a corner, and there he was, just at the other side of the street, waiting for the light to turn green so he could cross. It seemed ridiculous that I would think that I wouldn't recognize him. That was the longest red light of my life! And then.. the longest, most lovely embrace of my life.

Yes, we were both nervous, we were both awkward; but in that moment all of that was deemed irrelevant. This was the person I've known and loved over unattainable distances. Distances now closed, completed, overcome.

What a feeling. Elation? Perfection? Pure, unfiltered contentedness? I can't describe it. It sounds awfully cliche, though. razz

So, maybe an interpretation of someone in much the same situation will help reassure you. You know you love him, and that he loves you, right? That mutuality is all that matters. What's important now is really, truly embracing the time you are able to be with him, and appreciating those amazing technological powers that have allowed you to connect so.

You have him for two weeks, you lucky duck. I only had mine for three days. But, god, did I love each and every minute of them.

So, with this, I wish you luck and love and offer a kindred sort of reassurance and hope.

Aw, your story made me smile. I even giggled, I pictured it then realized that would be almost exactly my situation. I'm going to be picking up my boyfriend from a train station, I just hope that it goes as well as yours did. Thank you so much heart

[MiIIy]

I met my boy after 6 months online talking surprised And i found him randomly online.
No probs at all.

[lu-tze]

Well...
First off, BOOYA!
Go you biggrin

Ok, excitement over. If you've been dating almost a year and a half, everything is gonna go well. He's giving over 2 weeks of his life for you, so he's probably even more nervous!

But so long as you don't think too hard and just do what you do, and be yourself, then all will be good! biggrin *excited for you*

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lu-tze

Well...
First off, BOOYA!
Go you biggrin

Ok, excitement over. If you've been dating almost a year and a half, everything is gonna go well. He's giving over 2 weeks of his life for you, so he's probably even more nervous!

But so long as you don't think too hard and just do what you do, and be yourself, then all will be good! biggrin *excited for you*

Hah aw thanks! I'm hella exciteeddd @.@ his train leaves tomorrow<3

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bump~

[Akiisora]

Teh Quiouii

Coincedently, I just met my man of over a year for the very first time this weekend. It seems so strange, how we can be so nervous about meeting these people we know more deeply about than a lot of others who associate with each other physically on a daily basis. But the anxiousness is still there. It's alright. Embrace that excitement- chances are, he's just as nervous as you are.

I remember going to pick him up at the bus station, standing in front and feeling as if I was going to vomit. I couldn't find him, and I began to worry that, despite everything, despite the pictures, the endless daily phone conversations, the silly webcam sessions, I wouldn't recognize him. The panic escalated. We called each other, found out that the buses drop off and pick up passengers at different blocks, and, well. I turned a corner, and there he was, just at the other side of the street, waiting for the light to turn green so he could cross. It seemed ridiculous that I would think that I wouldn't recognize him. That was the longest red light of my life! And then.. the longest, most lovely embrace of my life.

Yes, we were both nervous, we were both awkward; but in that moment all of that was deemed irrelevant. This was the person I've known and loved over unattainable distances. Distances now closed, completed, overcome.

What a feeling. Elation? Perfection? Pure, unfiltered contentedness? I can't describe it. It sounds awfully cliche, though. razz

So, maybe an interpretation of someone in much the same situation will help reassure you. You know you love him, and that he loves you, right? That mutuality is all that matters. What's important now is really, truly embracing the time you are able to be with him, and appreciating those amazing technological powers that have allowed you to connect so.

You have him for two weeks, you lucky duck. I only had mine for three days. But, god, did I love each and every minute of them.

So, with this, I wish you luck and love and offer a kindred sort of reassurance and hope.

This was lovely to read. <:3