Welcome to Gaia! ::

well to start off my story
I'm from iowa
and i met this guy here on gaia

and he brings me down here to tennessee
we were very happy at the beginning
with all of the sweet talk about anything and everything
nothing and something

but ever since he went to college things have gotten hard
I live at his moms house

alone
no friends
i only have a job now

so now we barely talk,
because he forgets
or he's wayy too busy and says he doesn't have time for me

and he doesn't tell me things right away
like when this girl who likes him
has feelings for him

and when we were sick
in his own house
we had to kind of be quarentined for awhile in different rooms
we both have phones right
but the thing is
he didn't text me or try and talk to me at all

he was talking to this girl
and helping her out with her problems

I was a little sicker than him
I was ******** puking my guts out
and he didn't ask once how i was feeling
or try to make me feel better
he was talking to her

and next thing i know when we see eachother
in two weeks after that
i find out the same chick fell asleep on him twice
and doesn't tell me when it happened the first time

he waited until the second time
a week after it happened

and right now he just has no time for me
and it seems like complete bullshit

I try to explain to him how all this s**t has hurt me

but he just says "i'm sorry it'll e ok"
thats his damn response to everything
or it's "well what do you want me to do?"

at this point i don't know what to do
I keep getting hurt

should i go back home?
or do you think it'd be better for me to stay

at this point
I need someone elses opinion

I'm ******** sick and tired of crying to myself at night
with no one to talk to.

please some advice?
Infinite Virtue's avatar
  • 50
  • 200
  • 100
I would definitely LEAVE him!
Sie Lieben
I would definitely LEAVE him!
On the Death Spiral
Ladee Flatass
I'm from iowa

oh no


Ladee Flatass
and i met this guy here on gaia

oh no!

Ladee Flatass
and he brings me down here to tennessee

OH NO!

Ladee Flatass
I live at his moms house

OH NO!


Ladee Flatass
and he doesn't tell me things right away
like when this girl who likes him
has feelings for him

OH NO!


Ladee Flatass
i find out the same chick fell asleep on him twice
and doesn't tell me when it happened the first time

OH NO!


Ladee Flatass
should i go back home?
or do you think it'd be better for me to stay

NO WAY MAN YOU GOTTA PROPOSE TO HIM
i hate the thought of marriage
yuck
LF, is your post a haiku thing?

A-nee-way, in my books it's pretty obvious what happened; the passion had run out, and there's nothing much that binds you two together. Cut your losses while you're ahead; break up with him (amicably if possible), then get on with your life.

Also, I agree that kittens are awesome.
Dizzles's avatar
  • 200
  • 300
  • 100
User Image - Blocked by "Display Image" Settings. Click to show.People are talkin' 'bout the way I'm walkin', troubled by the change in my stride...


You met him on Gaia. And he had enough money to move you down to where he lives.

This is a big red flag for me. If he was able to do this for someone he barely knew online, why didn't he have a girl for himself closer to home?

Answer: because they all know how much of a d**k he is where he lives. He had to resort to people who didn't know him on the internet to find himself someone to fuck around with.

Leave him, go back home.

Everyone's askin' 'bout the way I'm actin', bothered by the look in my eyes...User Image - Blocked by "Display Image" Settings. Click to show.
I think it is probably time to move on. I mean, he is not being very honest with you at all and honesty is very important. Not telling the whole truth is also being dishonest.

If there is nothing left between you two, or the negative outweighs the positive, you should go back home.
ALLIGAT0R TEARS's avatar
  • 100
  • 50
  • 100
Leave him and maybe you should higher your standards a bit....
code0fvulgarism
GO HOME.

People will care about you there, and not ignore your kindness, and effort!
You are MUCH better than this guy.
Sabetsu
I think it is probably time to move on. I mean, he is not being very honest with you at all and honesty is very important. Not telling the whole truth is also being dishonest.

If there is nothing left between you two, or the negative outweighs the positive, you should go back home.
this is what im thinking.. plus
he did never tell me that he never got tested for stds, or told me he's had unprotected sex before
and he has..
so i might have an std. idfk
I'm screwed

fml
On the Death Spiral
Ladee Flatass
I'm from iowa

oh no


Ladee Flatass
and i met this guy here on gaia

oh no!

Ladee Flatass
and he brings me down here to tennessee

OH NO!

Ladee Flatass
I live at his moms house

OH NO!


Ladee Flatass
and he doesn't tell me things right away
like when this girl who likes him
has feelings for him

OH NO!


Ladee Flatass
i find out the same chick fell asleep on him twice
and doesn't tell me when it happened the first time

OH NO!


Ladee Flatass
should i go back home?
or do you think it'd be better for me to stay

NO WAY MAN YOU GOTTA PROPOSE TO HIM


User Image - Blocked by "Display Image" Settings. Click to show.

Quick Reply

Submit
Manage Your Items
Other Stuff
Get Items
Get Gaia Cash
Where Everyone Hangs Out
Other Community Areas
Virtual Spaces
Fun Stuff