Just when I thought things were getting better...

[Sphonx]

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[Teslapirate]

tl;dr advice: Get new friends and spend time with them instead of her.

More detailed version: Why does her wanting to have a child bother you so much? People change, it happens, you need to learn to deal with it in a mature manner, not freak out over it, especially since you never wanted kids anyway. That aside, spending all this time with her is not healthy. If you REALLY want to get over her you need to STOP spending time with her, and instead find new friends and activities to do not involving her. Otherwise you're going to be tethered to her forever, hearing every little thing she does with her new beau whether you like it or not. Is that really the life you want for yourself?

[legnanellaf5]

Well, really your issue is that you have no friends because you made your partner your only friend, and now you realize that you dont have that partner anymore. So you need to stop focusing on what SHE wants to do and go about and have your own life. For a lot of people you cant be friends after you break up, and while you may have to be roommates atm, you dont have to know about her whole life.

So you cant be her best friend, you cant be soemone she goes to for help because you arent ready for that change and you need to be honest about it. If you can, move out. You feel 'betratyed' because you havent yet realized that she isnt yours anymore.