Is it true that guys just want "one thing"?

[Demi_Pam]

No, not every guy is only after sex, sex is a part of life, hell its what creates life (okay, except for test tubes, IVF and all that) so in many ways yes, guys are only after sex as a means to pass on their DNA.
Its so much more complex than that, human beings on a whole want to pro-create (there are exceptions to this rule) as society changes our cultural norms change as well. 300 years ago it was normal for a 15 year old to be married, 200 years ago that age went up to over 16's, a hundred years ago marriage age was generally between 18 and 20 for women. (Again, there are exceptions to the rule) This change in society morals means that the age women have children has changed as well. In the fifties a woman would get married, quit her job and have babies, now women are leaving it much later to have children. The sexual revolution in the sixties and seventies completely changed how we look at sex, its no longer for the creation of children and something that happened after marriage, so as the way people view sex changes so does our desire for sex.
Once more we're having sex younger and younger, we may be shocked by teen mums but think on it 300+ years ago that was perfectly normal.

So yes, biologically that is all that men want, however it depends on the guy, everyone views sex in their own way, some see it as an act of procreation, others for pleasure, some its an act of intimacy between partners, so it really does depend on the person.

[Von Rottes]

WTF!?!?

If that is to happen Maybe you:
1. found one of the few men that do not believe in premarital sex.
2. a Straight edge man
3.Gay cover..

[Sid The Destroyer]

i refused my girl friend sex because i knew she would regret it later. she had strong beliefs in her religion, and we had a very deep moment one night. horomones were raising, both half naked, and she wanted to have sex, and ill admit that it nearly killed me to say no, but i wouldnt let her do it... in the end though i was right. she cried for about an hour because she felt so guilty about wanting to have sex.

so even though i would like to have sex, i like to think i have enough self control to refuse it.

[her squishy]

nope that is not true at all.
some guys do and some guys dont.
i dont only want that. i'm willing to leave it up to my girl, whenever she's ready. doesn't phase me at all.

[Masturbating_Rot_Crow]

Are all women gold-diggers? Would you only date a guy based on the contents of his wallet?
Gender stereotypes hold true for the few and far between.

[Silversan]

Seri Moguro

Chronos Melody

I've also heard that if a guy your dating doesn't ask you about anything sexual then somethings up.
*note: i'm not in relationship

Guys just want whats in your pants. Which is why I'm a lesbian. Girls at least APPRECIATE what you have in your pants.

...what?

Good job for stereotyping guys into monsters that just want to grope and ******** women. Ignore the fact that there are women out there that fit into the same stereotype. There are people of both genders who just want one thing: sex. It works both ways.

Also, it it not wrong to want sex or have a high sex drive.

Blazing Green Dragon

Chronos Melody

Ninja dj axel

well with me and my gf i think we r going to stay absinent but i am not saying that i dotn think about her that way its like ya guys want sex but soem can wait till they put a ring on there finger

very well put

Going against nature >.>

Also, Marriage is completely pointless and should be abolished in every aspect. I also think anyone who think marriage is necessary should figure out what love is.

Ignoring the legal benefits that come with it, such as tax breaks and being able to see your lover in the hospital? There's a load of benefits that come with marriage.

Not everyone marries for love. Marriage does not always equal love.

Reading your other posts in this thread---you obviously forgot the fact that marriage is not just a title with a paper. PEOPLE GET LEGAL BENEFITS. Seriously. Google it. Ask your parents. Go to the library.

Also, I know what love is. But, what type of love are YOU talking about? Love between lovers? Love between friends? Love between family members?

[x-y1p33y0-x]

Women want material (items, money, cars, etc.).
Men just want a woman.

[Perthyn i r Angerdd]

It's the mature guys who are the best. The ones who will make you want to sex them up. Rather than the ones just humping your leg. You're 17? Yeah, most lads that age, up to...Hmm, I don't know, whatever age tend to be like 'OMG MAH MATEZ LOST HIS VIRGINITY NOW AH GOTSA LOOSEE MIIINNNEE!1' Or something like that, but seriously, everyone's different. So I'm sure not ALL guys want just one thing...Well, I have yet to be convinced but heh...Let's have an open-mind on the subject! (y)

[BlueKOS-MOS]

Chronos Melody

I've also heard that if a guy your dating doesn't ask you about anything sexual then somethings up.
*note: i'm not in relationship

Wisp says that sometimes it is true if guys want one thing. But sometimes they don't.

Wisp has seen that the world can be unpredictable at times.

However, this may apply to women as well.

Wisp has seen that it's not just the men who may want one thing.

[iiShaKIRA]

not all guys. (:
... just a lot of them.

[I Takami Heru I]

Not all guys want a girl just for sex, the ones that do give other guys a bad name. I refused sex from my boyfriend because I want to be abstinent and we discussed it too and he respects that and doesn't ask when we are going to have sex all the time like my first ex did.

[Teslapirate]

Seems to me like -girls- only want one thing, at least in my experience. Too bad I'm one of those rare guys who refuses to put out until marriage. Unfortunately, this also means that nobody wants a relationship with me. Oh well~

[darkgamer2]

I officially HATE this stereotype, sex isn't all a guy wants in a relationship I dated a girl for over two years and I never pressed her for it and she was the one who brought it up in the end NOT ALL GUYS ARE ASSHOLES......... if you use that stereotype then all women are gold diggers, or materialistic or they are manipulative see its not nice to stereotype

[HaroxxHaro]

Humans are Humans derelict and selfish its in our nature ok cool