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im only 16 and im in a relationship...
if my bf asked me about something sexual id really liked to brake with him.....
ive done it when i was 14
and my xbf said "l always want a beautiful and sexy girl" ..... maybe guys always want those things..... confused
i believe that sexual desire factors into what they want (but maybe that really is all they want) but it is not the only thing they seek. it all depends on the person, you can't generalize especially when it comes to things like this.
yes, like 90% of guys only want sex, nothing else
and most of those boys try to convince you they are the small amount that actually wants you
I just had some douche bag follow meh around for a month.. make that all summer.. begging for head and sex.
I'm 13 and he'll be 16 soon, i believe..
he tried to get meh to lay on his bed, then pulled a condom out Dx
PERVERT!
Ok, so there are some guys like that, but they give the rest a bad name. I don't go around dry humping everything "SEXZ PLZ!?" Yes there are some guys like that, but not all of them are.
It depends on your age, and on the guy.
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well with me and my gf i think we r going to stay absinent but i am not saying that i dotn think about her that way its like ya guys want sex but soem can wait till they put a ring on there finger

very well put

Going against nature >.>

Also, Marriage is completely pointless and should be abolished in every aspect. I also think anyone who think marriage is necessary should figure out what love is.


I don't think it should be abolished, although the point of it has greatly change. It is not necessary, however it does give a greater reassurance of commitment. I mean come on, many guys and girls just want to "hit it and quit it". So one person will get screwed while the other could careless. Now if someone wants to marry you, then that is a promise to be with you until death. (although I know there is divorce and infidelity but if two people are truly in love then marriage has a point)

WRONG! MARRIAGE HOLDS NO HUGE POINT BUT TO SATISFY THE INSECURITIES THAT THEIR LOVER WON'T LEAVE THEM. Why should I marry to show I love her deeply and want to be with her forever? MARRIAGE IS A TITLE NOTHING MORE DUMBASS YOU NEED TO LEARN.


YOU obviously don't know what love is. So shut the hell up.
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Blazing Green Dragon
AmberElric
Blazing Green Dragon
Chronos Melody
Ninja dj axel
well with me and my gf i think we r going to stay absinent but i am not saying that i dotn think about her that way its like ya guys want sex but soem can wait till they put a ring on there finger

very well put

Going against nature >.>

Also, Marriage is completely pointless and should be abolished in every aspect. I also think anyone who think marriage is necessary should figure out what love is.


I don't think it should be abolished, although the point of it has greatly change. It is not necessary, however it does give a greater reassurance of commitment. I mean come on, many guys and girls just want to "hit it and quit it". So one person will get screwed while the other could careless. Now if someone wants to marry you, then that is a promise to be with you until death. (although I know there is divorce and infidelity but if two people are truly in love then marriage has a point)

WRONG! MARRIAGE HOLDS NO HUGE POINT BUT TO SATISFY THE INSECURITIES THAT THEIR LOVER WON'T LEAVE THEM. Why should I marry to show I love her deeply and want to be with her forever? MARRIAGE IS A TITLE NOTHING MORE DUMBASS YOU NEED TO LEARN.


YOU obviously don't know what love is. So shut the hell up.


What is love?

baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me, no more
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No, that's not true.
Not all men are dicks.
I guess it's hormones. A lot of guys want to fool around but if a guy pushes that on me even when I say no because they think that I'd give in, I'd get pissed. If I did I'd feel like a pathetic idiot who can't stick up for herself.
Vice Dreams
No, that's not true.
Not all men are dicks.


They just all have dicks.
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Vice Dreams
No, that's not true.
Not all men are dicks.


They just all have dicks.


I chopped mine off to save money on car insurance.

Hopefully it grows back.
imma ninjaa yo
yes, like 90% of guys only want sex, nothing else
and most of those boys try to convince you they are the small amount that actually wants you
I just had some douche bag follow meh around for a month.. make that all summer.. begging for head and sex.
I'm 13 and he'll be 16 soon, i believe..
he tried to get meh to lay on his bed, then pulled a condom out Dx
PERVERT!


I won't deny you what you state, for that is not why I bother typing this, but rather, come to deny just that little percentage. It is not 90%, luckily, for it is merely 85%. 5% of them are dead inside and couldn't care less, but most mindless include them in that because of how they act, and about 10% of us are perhaps, if I may say, Gentlemen.
I'd be concerned if a boyfriend didn't want sex, because I certainly do! There's other parts of a relationship, but sex comes along with it.

A lot of younger girls posting on this thread are really uptight. There's nothing perverted about sex, it's natural. It's alright to say you are not ready, but acknowledge that not everyone is willing to wait. And it's not just men who want sex. Seriously, women are JUST as bad.
O_O good gracious i didnt know that this thread would get so much response well thank you for all the answers that were given here on this thread.
Just one thing i wanted to point out. I didn't mean this thread to sound like a stereotypical statement...even though it kinda is. sorry about that.

So basically from all the responses the answer to my question is:
No, or Yes or Partially right.

The people who said NO: guys are not about that, and they just want to be in the girl's company and they use there real heads in situations (no pun intended)

People who said YES: some reasons for this were that guys all they want is sex and they never think about the girls feeling and commitment and marriage should be abolished because of that.

People who said PARTIALLY: Yeah they think about it, but it depends on how cute/pretty you are. another example would be sure they want it but its not all they want.

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