le vide noir
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- Posted: Mon, 04 Feb 2013 00:49:24 +0000
Political Extremism
People will be mad at me for this, but here goes:
Two scenarios exist here:
1. In some guy's storage shed a year ago you had some rough and fun sex with a guy you barely knew. Unable to handle your guilt, be it because you thought you were a slut, or merely that it was a regrettable encounter, you invented the idea that you were raped to protect your ego and self confidence. Let's face it, being a victim is better than being an idiot.
2. The scenario you described in the OP is truth.
I'm not going to judge you, say you are lying, or anything like that.
What I will say is that you majorly lack evidence. Innocence is presumed until evidence shows guilt. For all I know he's an innocent man.
If the court, judge, and jury you plead to is worth its salt it is going to throw you out on your a**. Most of these cases either aren't prosecuted or the defendant is found guilty because of lack of evidence. As far as anyone knows it was consensual and you merely have sour grapes.
You stated he recorded it. Make sure the police know that and pray to God he hasn't destroyed the video. That video's existence might be your only shot.
Basically if this is a lie, don't do it. You'll only humiliate yourself and ruin his life.
If it is the truth, weigh out the pros and cons and the likelihood the video still exists. I'm not saying you shouldn't, but the energy required vs the probability of conviction should be thought of.
Lastly calling a troll.
Two scenarios exist here:
1. In some guy's storage shed a year ago you had some rough and fun sex with a guy you barely knew. Unable to handle your guilt, be it because you thought you were a slut, or merely that it was a regrettable encounter, you invented the idea that you were raped to protect your ego and self confidence. Let's face it, being a victim is better than being an idiot.
2. The scenario you described in the OP is truth.
I'm not going to judge you, say you are lying, or anything like that.
What I will say is that you majorly lack evidence. Innocence is presumed until evidence shows guilt. For all I know he's an innocent man.
If the court, judge, and jury you plead to is worth its salt it is going to throw you out on your a**. Most of these cases either aren't prosecuted or the defendant is found guilty because of lack of evidence. As far as anyone knows it was consensual and you merely have sour grapes.
You stated he recorded it. Make sure the police know that and pray to God he hasn't destroyed the video. That video's existence might be your only shot.
Basically if this is a lie, don't do it. You'll only humiliate yourself and ruin his life.
If it is the truth, weigh out the pros and cons and the likelihood the video still exists. I'm not saying you shouldn't, but the energy required vs the probability of conviction should be thought of.
Lastly calling a troll.
I think I remember doing a rape kit. I need to follow up with the sex crimes detective and see if the doctors found any evidence for my case number. I am telling the truth, I told him we were not going to have sex and he forced me into it. In his mind, it was just rough play. He actually believes it was consensual. He wants people to think it was my fault that what he did hurt me. You shouldn't have to threaten someone's life just for a sexual release. I'm still scared of him. I said no from the start.