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Post: 8107930_1 created on Thu, 02 Jun 2005 14:53:48 +0000
Posted: Thu, 02 Jun 2005 14:53:48 +0000

Well, yesterday, My boyfriend and I had Sex for the first time in our relationship and well... I really hurt a very good friend of mine and he's going to hurt himself becasue I did that...

What should I do? I don't wish for him to hurt himself and please don't say he's Jealous or stupid/whatever for wanting to do that.

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Post: 8107930_2 created on Thu, 02 Jun 2005 14:55:55 +0000
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Why does this mean he wants to hurt himself?

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Post: 8107930_3 created on Thu, 02 Jun 2005 14:56:37 +0000
Posted: Thu, 02 Jun 2005 14:56:37 +0000

<center>You need to discuss with your friend that your decisions are -yours-, and that you will make the right decisions for you. He may be hurting, but there is no need to guilt you.

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Post: 8107930_4 created on Thu, 02 Jun 2005 14:56:54 +0000
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I told him about what happened and he told me he was going to break the No cutting promise he made to me...

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Post: 8107930_5 created on Thu, 02 Jun 2005 14:58:07 +0000
Posted: Thu, 02 Jun 2005 14:58:07 +0000

you need to sit down with ur friend and explain to him how much youd be crushed if he hurt himself...make him know you care for him...also explain to him why you decided to have sex in the first plaece...make it clear to him that since you and ur bf love each other sooo much you guys made that choice....

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Post: 8107930_6 created on Thu, 02 Jun 2005 14:58:13 +0000
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<center>You need to discuss with your friend that your decisions are -yours-, and that you will make the right decisions for you. He may be hurting, but there is no need to guilt you.

I told him that and he was so ******** pissed off at me... u.u and I feel guilt whenever I hurt someone I care about.

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Post: 8107930_7 created on Thu, 02 Jun 2005 14:59:25 +0000
Posted: Thu, 02 Jun 2005 14:59:25 +0000

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I told him about what happened and he told me he was going to break the No cutting promise he made to me...

i take it that your friend likes you?

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Post: 8107930_8 created on Thu, 02 Jun 2005 14:59:45 +0000
Posted: Thu, 02 Jun 2005 14:59:45 +0000

Its your life and you should be allowed to make your own descisions without feeling guilty about other people because of them does he not see that its your right to do what you like with your boyfriend?

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Post: 8107930_9 created on Thu, 02 Jun 2005 15:00:16 +0000
Posted: Thu, 02 Jun 2005 15:00:16 +0000

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I tried that and he started a whole "I'm just an outkast" thing and I hate myself for hurting him so much. I really really care about my friend and I hate to hurt him. Yes I love my boyfriend and all, but still. I don't wish to hurt any of my friends who like me.