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Seriously.. But he lives in Illinois... Is it pathetic? Or do you think it's just a state of mind? He lives so far away, but I have all these feelings for him. When ever I'm upset, he always gets me to smile. No matter how bad of a mood I'm in, he can't hold me, but I can feel it, ya know? It's not a physical attraction, it's an emotional attraction. He's been one of my best friends for 6-7 years of my life. He's helped me through break ups, and when my mom went on a drinking spree. He was there comforting me, each and everyday. I honestly don't know what else to say, or how to describe it... But my mom hates that I'm doing a long distance relationship. Because there's this other boy here in town. He has a car.. Not just any car. A mustang 95, I think? And he also has a job... My mom wants me to go out with him, but there's no feelings there. He's really a good guy. But again... There's no feeling for him. We dated about two years ago, but I broke up with him... He's been trying to get back with me, for a long time... Please help me out with this. I really, think I love this boy up in Illinois... What do you think?
love?!? oh, god! get the ******** out while you can!!!!!!!!

LDR's are really difficult. he'll be around other girls. and having taste, touch and smell, it is all the more real than somebody you can only talk or type to. so hard to hold on. so easy to be hurt. and when you toss in love there, you are just asking for your emotions to be raped.


you can't be with him, so you should try and be with someone else. if you really love him, then when you are able to be with him, then you can. until then, don't bet a dime on your feelings.

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