b 3 l l s i 3
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- Posted: Mon, 28 Jul 2014 01:03:49 +0000
soooo about four years ago my ex best friend and I stopped talking because I was ENTIRELY MISLED about a situation and got upset at her because of it. We dated like twice before that and we just started talking again so it really wasn't a great situation...
Four years ago I was a depressed, not-self-confident person that had suicidal inclinations, most of which I have recovered from to become confident. I cut out the person that misled me and no longer talk to them as well.
I feel like this would at the very least help me get some closure (the incident itself was very draining and I loved her very much as a friend, so if she doesn't want to be friends I'd love to know because it's just one of those big what-ifs) and gain peace with myself for this incident (which I do widely regard as my fault... because it was. I used to be terrible at communicating)
But (the big but) is I'm incredibly anxious about it, and I don't want to just waltz in and be like 'yo I found your blog and thought you might want to talk to me LOL'. And I want to be prepped in case she just says 'who the ******** are you' or something equally dismissive (which to be fair, is a fair reaction).
tl;dr I want to talk to my ex (as a friend) about what happened 4 years ago. how do I do it.
Four years ago I was a depressed, not-self-confident person that had suicidal inclinations, most of which I have recovered from to become confident. I cut out the person that misled me and no longer talk to them as well.
I feel like this would at the very least help me get some closure (the incident itself was very draining and I loved her very much as a friend, so if she doesn't want to be friends I'd love to know because it's just one of those big what-ifs) and gain peace with myself for this incident (which I do widely regard as my fault... because it was. I used to be terrible at communicating)
But (the big but) is I'm incredibly anxious about it, and I don't want to just waltz in and be like 'yo I found your blog and thought you might want to talk to me LOL'. And I want to be prepped in case she just says 'who the ******** are you' or something equally dismissive (which to be fair, is a fair reaction).
tl;dr I want to talk to my ex (as a friend) about what happened 4 years ago. how do I do it.